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Any clothing ideas for a mtf to ease into non-masc stuff? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I hope my enby peeps can help me out here.

I am very interested in exploring a more feminine expression, but my starting point is masc-af physically, so anything too feminine too quick is going to have a very hard contrast and I'm definitely more of an "I don't want to stick out much" kind of person.

Any ideas that may be more androgynous, but not attention grabbing that I can try out? I am not good at picking outfits anyway, so I need all the help I can get.

Like beard and full body hair, so obviously lower cut stuff could be very dysmophic atm.

Maybe something that just feelsmore feminine but may not look it so much. You know? Does this make sense?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks! This has been a very informative and interesting comments. I'm insanely surprised to hear the cross dressing part + nail polish + cis-het. If what you say is true you are an amazingly confident individual in so many areas. I would love to be that confident, but I definitely have some things that just don't allow it.

Definitely you have made me more confident to try polish in public.

I definitely have found I like deeper v necks recently and have been seriously considering some women's, but more androgynous t shirts, like lower cut but not that different from plane male t shirts. Definitely the shoulder width would be an issue 😅 I've been suggested a couple times to be a "muscle mommy" and I kind of dig that, I'll never be petite, that's for sure.

Like, seriously, Thank you. This comment means a lot and really encourages me.

I'm so glad you can be proudly, loudly, you and not give a fuck.