You fundamentally misunderstand Israel. It's a settler colonial expansionist state. Every individual who, after witnessing the genocide over the past 3 years, hasn't yet left, is an occupier.

The end goal isn't reforming Israel, it's the complete dismantling of the state so the land can be returned to its rightful people: the Palestinians.

To that end, there's going to be no "let's make sure Israeli feelings aren't hurt". This is war. Palestinians have been living under it for a century. There's no place for pearl clutching