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this post was submitted on 05 Feb 2026
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It sucks because on the one hand I totally get it. I have had the job of being someone's makeshift therapist many, many times. However I hate hate hate the reaction to this being "the person who is dumping trauma on me is bad and should be shamed" instead of "We need to improve mental health services, but we haven't, so while this sucks for everyone involved, it's something we as a society have to deal with right now because this isn't either of our faults therefore neither of us deserve to be punished."
I have never once felt frustrated at the person reaching out to me. Only frustration that they had to.