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I’m getting more confident in myself and starting to come out to more people, but I feel like I don’t know how to? It always feels awkward.

Obviously for some people it might need to be more of a conversation, but for friends that I know will be supportive, does it need to be anything more than a text saying “hey, fyi, I’m trans. This is my new name and pronouns”?

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[-] Fedi-bitch@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

FYI I'm not yet, but seriously considered this approach

[-] tama@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

Tell loved ones, the rest get breadcrumbs at best. People who don’t love and appreciate you as a human are not worth the time or air.

[-] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago

FYI, most people don't figure it out for a bit

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