I hate this sentiment... (self.lesbians)

submitted 1 month ago by may_be to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Hey, bigender gay/omni person here, I remember being a girl and talking to this one girl. I had a crush on her but she ended the friendship saying she didn't like me and we wouldn't get along, and maybe that was for the best...

Anyway, one thing she said stuck with me. Well I get being lesbian and only liking cis women, not trans women, but the way she said it kinda irked me... am I overreacting?

"I want to date a GIRL. A REAL girl not a boy who wants to be a girl and turned into one!"

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[-] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

they are transphobic plain and simple. some people have a preference for genitals, but this was not about that for them, it was about the "validity" of your transness and that is bullshit

[-] may_be 1 points 1 month ago

I agree, still stands but I should specify I'm a trans man now and I was a cis woman not a trans woman

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