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I personally have completely nixed the R word from my vocabulary. I agree that there was a time when some terms were super offensive, or the history of a term is one leaded in negative use towards marginalized peoples. I'm just not convinced that these terms in particular are ones I need to care about.
If you’ve stopped using the r word because it’s offensive, that’s great! Really. Hopefully this discussion (like the linked article) will convince you that there are other terms commonly used that are just as offensive. If you can find alternatives to the r word, then you can also probably find alternatives to “deaf” and “stupid”, for example. Regardless, I appreciate that you’re trying!
This isn't a new discussion I've seen, and it's something I've dealt with internally myself. It's also not as though this is a final answer. I do try to evade these words where I can, but generally I don't think they're harmful enough for me to "swear off" so to speak, if that makes sense? I'm not so dull as to say it's "a personal choice" - that stuff's just a cop-out for choosing the worst options, but I think that simply suggesting that some people may be offended by certain terms is enough to lend people to change their biases in terminology; or at least it is for me haha
Thanks for the good natured response. I appreciate that in this thread, given how intense some people seem to be.
I’m autistic, and so I come off pretty blunt sometimes. I am really passionate about disability justice, but blasting people just hardens their position and makes them unwilling to listen. I’m glad that you weren’t offended! :)
I totally getcha, 150%. It's hard too to distinguish between someone steadfast about a cause from someone who's just using a cause as a means to bully. I often fall into that category of indistinction myself, so I can completely relate.