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how close to the table edge is it socially acceptable to place a full glass of water? (feddit.nu)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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The question assumes that you are in mixed company and not just by yourself at your home.

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[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

It depends.

If you are dining, then place it on the far side of your plate.
If you are sitting at a table, but not dining, then place it approximately halfway between the dining position and the table edge.
If you are standing by the table, then I'd go with about 4"-6" from the table edge.
If you are standing by the table in a high traffic area, then I'd go with 6"-8".
If you notice someone nearby who is particularly animated when speaking, then I'd aim for the centre of the table.

This answer assumes the table in question is a dining table. Coffee tables are a whole different kettle of fish; and don't even get me started on side tables, bureaus and credenzas!

Edit: formatting

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I need to know your credenza rules

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You are not ready for the credenza rules.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

This is true. I'm still working on the rules around what constitutes a credenza.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is fantastic. I want to lick your brain (in an appreciative and consensual way).

I found I disagreed strongly, but that was for standing tables, for dining tables I agree without reservation. Well phrased!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's better to have a reservation when dining.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

It’s also better to keep the brain encased in the skull

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Also be mindful of big dogs with waggy tails

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Just make sure to use a damn coaster!