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Is 16 and 19 really that bad?
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this post was submitted on 11 Oct 2025
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Try moving that in the other direction though; I expect you'll eventually find pairing that makes you uncomfortable.
If it really was a 4-year-old dating a 7-year-old, I unironically feel like that would be more comfortable, probably because "dating" between little children is kind of silly in my mind.
Overall, my take would probably be "An adult who deliberately gets into a relationship with a minor (like the friend's ex) is kind of weird, while an established couple with a 3-year age gap (like Jessica/Vitor herself) is fine."