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submitted 1 day ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

As a queer person (agender) with a conservative dad, I don’t get why he says he wants to go back to the 1950s. What was so special back then besides his reasoning that times were simpler? I feel like it would be harder for me then as a queer person.

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

well, for one, i think he said because something to do with white people. the same reason he likes europe. europe is primarily white people, he says, and segregation was still a thing in the 50s.

[-] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

I hate to be the one to tell you this, but your dad is a racist.

I would say it's a shining example of my theory. He wants to go back to when he was ignorant of the struggles of other people. They did exist, he just didn't know and now he does.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Europe is primarily white people

Hah, that's telling. Just FYI, there's been generations upon generations of racism and ethnic hatred here in Eastern Europe. I guess we have the advanced racists: the ones who don't hate you for your skin colour, but who your parents were, religion and primary language.

I'll bet that if your dad grew up here in Romania, he'd be complaining about those sneaky Szeklers trying to steal Transylvania and Roma people being subhuman.

Also, he seems the type to pine for Europe because "We're all Christian!". Trust me, you haven't seen "Christian love" like state religions persecuting people of the wrong sect. Orthodox Christianity is the state religion here, and Protestants of all stripes get treated like heathens.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Ah, but discrimination against Roma isn't racism because they actually are all dirty thieves!

  • said to me by an actual European lacking all self-awareness
[-] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

Why I never ever ever mention my Roma ancestry to any European, ever

this post was submitted on 11 Jul 2025
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