▲ 89 ▼ What seemingly backwards solutions have worked for you in life? (fedia.io) submitted 1 year ago by Chozo@fedia.io to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 51 comments fedilink hide all child comments Such as counterintuitive fixes to a problem, or where a mistake unexpectedly results in an even better outcome than originally hoped for.
[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 55 points 1 year ago (2 children) Almost anything with managing kids’ behavior. If you want them not to do something, tell them a bunch of things to do instead. (It may be appropriate to discuss the undesired behavior later). Want them to talk to you? Listen to them. Want them to learn a lot and be successful in school? Praise their effort, and not their intelligence or knowledge. permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago This can also be good advice for dealing with adults. permalink fedilink source parent [+] peteyestee@feddit.org 1 point 1 year ago* [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago This can also be good advice for dealing with adults. permalink fedilink source parent