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I fucked up (lemmy.world)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

So I've got laid off recently and I decided I wanted to keep my projects that I worked on as a reference for myself, I wouldn't sell them or anything like that, just bits of code I created. So I just went and copied pretty much everything relevant to me off my work laptop, only local files, nothing really super confidential, just code projects for specific inhouse usage and documentation about them. Also my personal folders where I did have a few personal things as well, just so I don't lose access to those. I wouldn't have used it for anything but personal reference, like I wouldn't even know what else to do with it. Stupid, I know. Well, they found out, with some DLP software I didn't know we had. So now I will have to go and meet, my bosses, hr and legal. Don't know how that is going to go, I will just say I'm sorry, I deleted everything in a panic, which probably was also dumb, but I'll bring my laptop and the wiped drive that I used. I am just really really nervous and I could throw up.

Edit: Thank you for all your support, I've survived the gauntlet, I am still miffed by the whole ordeal but now it's over and, surprise, I had nothing just as I told them.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago

Companies will always try to scare you after you quit if they can, as a way to enforce their “intellectual property”

A former company that I worked at sent me a legal threat after I left, I had told some other engineers which company I was going to and a few decided to check it out and apply too. The company I was leaving accused me of illegally poaching their employees.

Thing is the company has the burden of proof if they want to show that I damaged them somehow. And IANAL but I think the same would apply here. They have to show that this has damaged them somehow to go after you.

If you got laid off with a severance package of some sort they might try to go after that. They may have made you sign some sort of exit paperwork. Even that though would be pretty epically petty.

But I’m not a lawyer, you might want to sit down and consult with a lawyer before you meet with them. I wouldn’t sign anything they give you in that meeting, “I need to have my lawyer review this first” is something I say to people when they want to pressure me to sign things. It’s pretty hard to argue against that, it’s a very reasonable thing and demanding you sign something you’ve just been given without having a lawyer look it over is unreasonable.

Also if you don’t work for them you don’t have to meet with them, you definitely don’t have to meet them on their terms. You can tell them you are happy to discuss with at your lawyers office. Good luck, lawyers aren’t super cheap, but they are worth every penny in protecting your rights.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks for the advice, I will also say that whatever files I had would not be of much use to anyone on their own and now they're all gone anyway. Sadly no time to see a lawyer before, but if I feel like they're trying to trap me or make me sign something I will say I need to speak with my lawyer.

this post was submitted on 26 May 2025
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