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I forget medical info all the time. When was my last dentist visit? I dunno. Which kid had their tonsils out? What's my blood type?

Wife asks "remember when I had strep last year?" No...

Has anyone in my house had COVID? I think so, but which one(s)?

I forget vacations we took, what states I've been to.

Terrible at remembering people that I've met even a bunch of times.

Horrible at work. I'm on top of what's happening now, mostly, because I have notes, but what happened a year ago? Gosh.

It's really frustrating living like this, but I don't know how much might be my ADHD and how much is just me having a bad brain.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

This is what I'm like now. The memories are there, but I can't deliberately recall them. My memory used to be amazing, and I'd be the one who could remember all the details of everything.

Now, I struggle to remember anything without context. I can't remember most of what I did this week, but if someone said that we went to the supermarket on Monday, for example, then I'd recall lots of random details, but not necessarily anything important. It can be very frustrating.