Not arguing you're wrong, but I've been witness to the other side of that sort of conversation.

The item was ketchup. Always needed to have ketchup. Then:

Child: "I hate ketchup!"

Mom: "What do you mean? You put ketchup on everything.'

Child: "I've never used ketchup. I've always hated it."

[Jump forward a few years]

Child: "Where's my ketchup?"

Mom: "I thought you hated ketchup?"

Child: "Since when? I use ketchup all the time."

As the dad, I'm tempted to point out that mom doesn't need help losing her mind, but as the dad, I also know better than to be involved.

For me it was always, what do you want for Christmas? How about a computer chair (because she didn't like the chair I used, it was one you knelt on kind of like this.

I would say absolutely not, I love my chair. And she would get me a computer chair for Christmas.

Same thing happened with my graduation. She got my brother a watch a couple years before when he graduated, told her absolutely don't get me a watch I never wear them as they always bothered my wrist. (I sweat and run hot, and we lived in Florida, which means it's always 100% humidity). I of course got a watch for Graduation. I took it to get sized 7 years later, wore it home from the place that sized it put it in a drawer and the battery died god knows when after that, but long before I ever went to wear it, I just saw it was dead when I had to move it to another house. So now I carry a dead watch from place to place and I doubt it's worth anything as it was engraved on the inside, so I doubt you could even pawn in.