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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I needed to live and pay bills and take care of a family. I tried to write it in a sensitive way and it still wasn't good enough for your entitled, priviliged, and judgmental stance.

Some of us literally have no ability to just entertain "adventure." We needed to just survive. And I was simply stating that I think some people need to be a bit more willing to make hard choices to better their lives, such as moving where their particular jobs are more likely to be.

It has nothing to do with licking boot. It has to do with reality and survival. But a secondary benefit was that I found joy in my career and what I do since it's a public service type of career as well. I also became a productive member of society and can now help others a bit in various ways.

I'll also add that while the goal at the time was not to do anything I wanted, but to do what I needed, I wound up in a degree and field that is still interesting (I didnt study what I wanted, I studied what I thought might pay well and which I was good at). Moving for jobs was significant to changing my life and giving some new perspective and adventure in the simple sense that I got away from where I grew up and saw a different place and have met and worked with tons of great people from all over the world who also moved here. It was not my original purpose, and it's not the same as travel for adventure or leisure which was not something I could ever entertain for the majority of my life, but it has in a way given me adventure I wasn't seeking.

I will also note the original move for a job itself was never simple. We literally slept on floors for the first few weeks.

I don't regret any of it. Our lives are immensely better today for making hard but smart moves for the better. Others should also do the same if they have options to better their lives.