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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's not about work ethic. It's an openness to new things, and a willingness to coordinate and plan things.

And seeing "moving away" as a huge sacrifice, to where you'd tend to describe it as "uprooting your life," is a particular worldview that you're entitled to, but one you should be aware that many other people don't share.

You're attributing a lot of unspoken values in that comment that I don't really think are there, and I suspect it's because you place a much higher value in staying close to home than the typical person does, and because you seem to elevate the purpose of a career to primarily be maximizing one's own money.

So take a step back. Reread that comment with the revisited assumption that some people choose careers for reasons completely different from money, and that people don't feel a strong need to stay in the same city where they grew up. It's just career advice at that point.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

Mate, you got so much patience and empathy to be able to respond and explain. Love who you are and who you have become. I absolutely would have walked away from a negative comment and you are so capable to reiterate points to a random internet comment.