▲ 855 ▼ Did you even say 'thank you'? (lemmy.world) submitted 1 year ago by The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world to c/linkedinlunatics@sh.itjust.works 177 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[+] grober_Unfug@discuss.tchncs.de 379 points 1 year ago (32 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source hideshow 51 child comments replies: [–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 203 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why would you get downvoted in a community called LinkedIn Lunatics where we are expressly making fun of the content of the post? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] SARGE@startrek.website 81 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 32 points 1 year ago (4 children) False! The Earth and Sun orbit the center of gravity between the two of them! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 26 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! They all exist in a complex system of gravitational pull where all bodies, not just these two, have differing degrees of influence on each other dictated by distance and mass! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! What you wrote is true, but it doesn't make the comment above false! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply) [+] SARGE@startrek.website 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child) False! You forgot to prefix your comment with "False!". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago Objection! Uh. False objection! permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply) [–] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago The center of solar system is not always between those two objects. Half the time they're both on the same side of the center permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply) [–] brap@lemmy.world 68 points 1 year ago (6 children) 100%. I’ve never heard of this practise - maybe it’s an American thing? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 82 points 1 year ago (1 child) They tell us to do it in Canada too. But seriously, if you hiring me depends on me sending a mail to kiss your ass, fuck off, I take back my application. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DeathsEmbrace@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago God I love society programming humans to be ok with corporate subjugation of our species. permalink fedilink source parent [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) No, it's not. That being said, I've interviewed dozens, if not hundreds, of candidates, and have received thank-you notes from a handful of them. These notes are not part of the rubric used to evaluate them for the role. They also tend to come from weaker performers, so if anything, such a note is a red flag. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (1 child) Exactly this! Additionally I cannot think of a single person I've interviewed who hasn't said thanks at the end of the actual interview. How big a lunatic must this guy be to be SO out of touch with reality on this one? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 18 points 1 year ago he runs his aspect of the business as a tiny fascist dictatorship. he wants yesmen, not actual applicants permalink fedilink source parent [–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 7 points 1 year ago When I was growing up in the US in the '80s and '90s, our business classes did tell us it was proper send a thank-you letter a couple of days after an interview. This was, of course, in the days before email and workers' rights got even more abysmal in the US. Not sure if this one data point helps. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (3 replies) [–] Lemjukes@lemm.ee 46 points 1 year ago* Downvoting you specifically for saying you’ll get downvotes for expressing a rational thought in response to a linkedinlunatic post. How dare you. But also you’re right, bullshit tests should be called out as bullshit and employers should be shamed for pulling stupid shit like this. This is a business transaction where I’m selling you my time and skills for less than their worth so you can exploit that for a profit. You(the employer) should be fucking thanking me. permalink fedilink source parent [–] voxthefox@lemmy.world 38 points 1 year ago (1 child) I honestly use it as a passive aggressive "hey it's been a week and I haven't heard from you, am I still being considered." email. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago It's perfect for that. Also, "did you lose my fucking email, you incompetent boob? Here it is again." but couched as politeness. permalink fedilink source parent [–] lemmylommy@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (3 children) But they want you to beg. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] samus12345@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago permalink fedilink source parent [–] Ashelyn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago (1 child) The more you beg for the job, the more it signals to a prospective employer that you need it and don't have alternatives. That means they can string you out much easier. Desperation facilitates exploitation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] ameancow@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 5 months ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply) [–] charonn0@startrek.website 19 points 1 year ago (2 children) I was taught that the point of a thank you note is to get your name in front of them one more time. It's a form of advertising; they might have done 5 interviews that day, 5 the previous day, and have 5 more scheduled for tomorrow. You want them to remember you over the next person who has the same qualifications. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Lemmy_2019@lemmy.one 10 points 1 year ago (1 child) Commenting just to get my name out there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] smeenz@lemmy.nz 5 points 1 year ago You're hired. permalink fedilink source parent [–] usernamefactory@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago Also a final opportunity to emphasize anything that went well in the interview, or downplay/explain anything that didn’t. Anyone who’s judgementally dismissing applicants for not sending a thank you is an asshole, but this does not change the fact that sending a thank you is a good idea if you actually want to get the job. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 year ago (1 child) I've been looking for work lately and getting told the same thing by the employment offices around me (job search assistance). It feels so bizarre and pushy to email back after an application/interview. I showed up and did my part, the balls in their court now, I'm just waiting for a response. To reach out again seems like I'm leaning over their shoulder and asking 'have you made a decision yet??? How about now, can I have a job now?' They already know what I want, what I can offer, and how to reach me. What more do they need? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] AtariDump@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago Their ego stroked, apparently. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Yoga@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] jqubed@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 child) I usually get the thank you when they want to bring me to the next round of the hiring process. Maybe the thank you acts as a kind of signal that a party is interested in keeping the process moving? I’m sending a follow-up email if I’m eager to keep things moving (and it’s not simply “thank you for the interview;” I’m including a couple brief points reiterating why I think I’m a good fit). If I’m ambivalent or not interested I wouldn’t put the effort in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 12 points 1 year ago This is how I've always understood them. If after you've had some time to digest how the interview went (and evaluate, based on the questions you (should have) asked during the interview, whether you think the position is a good fit for you) you still want the job, you send a quick email basically saying "Hey, thanks for meeting with me - it was nice to meet you / your team. Based on our interaction, it looks like this position would be a great fit for me / I'd be a great fit for it - here's some things I took away from it (which also serves to show I was attentive / not just going through the motions) - looking forward to hearing from you to continue the process!" To your point, it's not an ass-kissing email, the 'thank you' portion is just a polite formality to open the conversation. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Please_Do_Not@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago (4 children) It's not functioning as a thank you, it's honestly just an indication that you're willing to take an extra 5 minutes to do something when the stakes are high. If you really want the job, how you treat that conversation might be similar to how you treat a client once you're hired. If you don't really want the job, or you really don't want to send a thank you, that's fine, but with 5 applicants to choose from, wouldn't they opt for the candidate who put in the best/most work? I'm not saying it isn't annoying and transactional and a lot to ask, but as someone who's applied for hundreds of jobs, the reason to do it still feels clear. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments load more comments (4 replies) [–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago Most upvoted comment I've seen on Lemmy in a while permalink fedilink source parent [–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 9 points 1 year ago* it's been my position for a while now that job interviews evaluate, more than anything, how much the candidate is willing to humiliate themselves for the employer. that's more important to employers than actual skill permalink fedilink source parent [+] SARGE@startrek.website 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] christian@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago I’ll probably get a lot of downvotes for this, but I'm like 50/50 on this part being sarcasm, it doesn't read like that to me at all but it's also hard for me to picture expecting disagreement with a linkedin headcase to be an unpopular opinion anywhere outside of linkedin. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago There's a completely transactional reason for post-interview "thank you" notes, whether you're applying to college or for a job. It's to remind the person, who's probably interviewing a lot of applicants, of your existence and your qualifications. A good one includes a reminder of any parts where you think you shone. And if there's something you thought of later, it's okay to add that. If their ego makes them take your thanks as sincere sucking up, fine. But you really do it for yourself, and the "thank you" is pro forma. Of course this assumes you still want the position after having sat the interview. If not, feel free to ghost. permalink fedilink source parent [–] modifier@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago I neither engage in it as an applicant nor value it as a hiring manager. It would be difficult to assess if this has hampered my career, but I am doing fine. permalink fedilink source parent [–] entwine413@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago Because keeping the line of communication open is good. You're one of dozens of applicants, so you want them to focus on you. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lizardking13@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago I'm a hiring manager and the thank you notes I sometimes get after an interview have absolutely no sway on my opinions. Sure it's nice, but for me personally it doesn't matter at all. It's just part of the "show" and I try to not care about that. However, I do encourage people that are applying for jobs and interviewing to send the thank you. It definitely doesn't hurt. permalink fedilink source parent [+] atempuser23@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (13 replies)
[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 203 points 1 year ago (1 child) Why would you get downvoted in a community called LinkedIn Lunatics where we are expressly making fun of the content of the post? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] SARGE@startrek.website 81 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 32 points 1 year ago (4 children) False! The Earth and Sun orbit the center of gravity between the two of them! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 26 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! They all exist in a complex system of gravitational pull where all bodies, not just these two, have differing degrees of influence on each other dictated by distance and mass! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! What you wrote is true, but it doesn't make the comment above false! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply) [+] SARGE@startrek.website 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child) False! You forgot to prefix your comment with "False!". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago Objection! Uh. False objection! permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply) [–] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago The center of solar system is not always between those two objects. Half the time they're both on the same side of the center permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply)
[+] SARGE@startrek.website 81 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 32 points 1 year ago (4 children) False! The Earth and Sun orbit the center of gravity between the two of them! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 26 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! They all exist in a complex system of gravitational pull where all bodies, not just these two, have differing degrees of influence on each other dictated by distance and mass! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! What you wrote is true, but it doesn't make the comment above false! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply) [+] SARGE@startrek.website 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child) False! You forgot to prefix your comment with "False!". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago Objection! Uh. False objection! permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply) [–] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago The center of solar system is not always between those two objects. Half the time they're both on the same side of the center permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply)
[–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 32 points 1 year ago (4 children) False! The Earth and Sun orbit the center of gravity between the two of them! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 26 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! They all exist in a complex system of gravitational pull where all bodies, not just these two, have differing degrees of influence on each other dictated by distance and mass! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! What you wrote is true, but it doesn't make the comment above false! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply) [+] SARGE@startrek.website 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child) False! You forgot to prefix your comment with "False!". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago Objection! Uh. False objection! permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply) [–] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago The center of solar system is not always between those two objects. Half the time they're both on the same side of the center permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply)
[–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 26 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! They all exist in a complex system of gravitational pull where all bodies, not just these two, have differing degrees of influence on each other dictated by distance and mass! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! What you wrote is true, but it doesn't make the comment above false! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply)
[–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 child) False! What you wrote is true, but it doesn't make the comment above false! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply)
[+] SARGE@startrek.website 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child) False! You forgot to prefix your comment with "False!". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago Objection! Uh. False objection! permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply)
[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child) False! You forgot to prefix your comment with "False!". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago Objection! Uh. False objection! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago Objection! Uh. False objection! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago The center of solar system is not always between those two objects. Half the time they're both on the same side of the center permalink fedilink source parent
[–] brap@lemmy.world 68 points 1 year ago (6 children) 100%. I’ve never heard of this practise - maybe it’s an American thing? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 82 points 1 year ago (1 child) They tell us to do it in Canada too. But seriously, if you hiring me depends on me sending a mail to kiss your ass, fuck off, I take back my application. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DeathsEmbrace@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago God I love society programming humans to be ok with corporate subjugation of our species. permalink fedilink source parent [–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) No, it's not. That being said, I've interviewed dozens, if not hundreds, of candidates, and have received thank-you notes from a handful of them. These notes are not part of the rubric used to evaluate them for the role. They also tend to come from weaker performers, so if anything, such a note is a red flag. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (1 child) Exactly this! Additionally I cannot think of a single person I've interviewed who hasn't said thanks at the end of the actual interview. How big a lunatic must this guy be to be SO out of touch with reality on this one? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 18 points 1 year ago he runs his aspect of the business as a tiny fascist dictatorship. he wants yesmen, not actual applicants permalink fedilink source parent [–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 7 points 1 year ago When I was growing up in the US in the '80s and '90s, our business classes did tell us it was proper send a thank-you letter a couple of days after an interview. This was, of course, in the days before email and workers' rights got even more abysmal in the US. Not sure if this one data point helps. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (3 replies)
[–] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 82 points 1 year ago (1 child) They tell us to do it in Canada too. But seriously, if you hiring me depends on me sending a mail to kiss your ass, fuck off, I take back my application. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] DeathsEmbrace@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago God I love society programming humans to be ok with corporate subjugation of our species. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DeathsEmbrace@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago God I love society programming humans to be ok with corporate subjugation of our species. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) No, it's not. That being said, I've interviewed dozens, if not hundreds, of candidates, and have received thank-you notes from a handful of them. These notes are not part of the rubric used to evaluate them for the role. They also tend to come from weaker performers, so if anything, such a note is a red flag. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (1 child) Exactly this! Additionally I cannot think of a single person I've interviewed who hasn't said thanks at the end of the actual interview. How big a lunatic must this guy be to be SO out of touch with reality on this one? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 18 points 1 year ago he runs his aspect of the business as a tiny fascist dictatorship. he wants yesmen, not actual applicants permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (1 child) Exactly this! Additionally I cannot think of a single person I've interviewed who hasn't said thanks at the end of the actual interview. How big a lunatic must this guy be to be SO out of touch with reality on this one? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 18 points 1 year ago he runs his aspect of the business as a tiny fascist dictatorship. he wants yesmen, not actual applicants permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 18 points 1 year ago he runs his aspect of the business as a tiny fascist dictatorship. he wants yesmen, not actual applicants permalink fedilink source parent
[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 7 points 1 year ago When I was growing up in the US in the '80s and '90s, our business classes did tell us it was proper send a thank-you letter a couple of days after an interview. This was, of course, in the days before email and workers' rights got even more abysmal in the US. Not sure if this one data point helps. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lemjukes@lemm.ee 46 points 1 year ago* Downvoting you specifically for saying you’ll get downvotes for expressing a rational thought in response to a linkedinlunatic post. How dare you. But also you’re right, bullshit tests should be called out as bullshit and employers should be shamed for pulling stupid shit like this. This is a business transaction where I’m selling you my time and skills for less than their worth so you can exploit that for a profit. You(the employer) should be fucking thanking me. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] voxthefox@lemmy.world 38 points 1 year ago (1 child) I honestly use it as a passive aggressive "hey it's been a week and I haven't heard from you, am I still being considered." email. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago It's perfect for that. Also, "did you lose my fucking email, you incompetent boob? Here it is again." but couched as politeness. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago It's perfect for that. Also, "did you lose my fucking email, you incompetent boob? Here it is again." but couched as politeness. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lemmylommy@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (3 children) But they want you to beg. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] samus12345@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago permalink fedilink source parent [–] Ashelyn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago (1 child) The more you beg for the job, the more it signals to a prospective employer that you need it and don't have alternatives. That means they can string you out much easier. Desperation facilitates exploitation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] ameancow@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 5 months ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply)
[–] Ashelyn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago (1 child) The more you beg for the job, the more it signals to a prospective employer that you need it and don't have alternatives. That means they can string you out much easier. Desperation facilitates exploitation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] ameancow@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 5 months ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
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[–] charonn0@startrek.website 19 points 1 year ago (2 children) I was taught that the point of a thank you note is to get your name in front of them one more time. It's a form of advertising; they might have done 5 interviews that day, 5 the previous day, and have 5 more scheduled for tomorrow. You want them to remember you over the next person who has the same qualifications. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Lemmy_2019@lemmy.one 10 points 1 year ago (1 child) Commenting just to get my name out there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] smeenz@lemmy.nz 5 points 1 year ago You're hired. permalink fedilink source parent [–] usernamefactory@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago Also a final opportunity to emphasize anything that went well in the interview, or downplay/explain anything that didn’t. Anyone who’s judgementally dismissing applicants for not sending a thank you is an asshole, but this does not change the fact that sending a thank you is a good idea if you actually want to get the job. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lemmy_2019@lemmy.one 10 points 1 year ago (1 child) Commenting just to get my name out there. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] smeenz@lemmy.nz 5 points 1 year ago You're hired. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] usernamefactory@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago Also a final opportunity to emphasize anything that went well in the interview, or downplay/explain anything that didn’t. Anyone who’s judgementally dismissing applicants for not sending a thank you is an asshole, but this does not change the fact that sending a thank you is a good idea if you actually want to get the job. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 year ago (1 child) I've been looking for work lately and getting told the same thing by the employment offices around me (job search assistance). It feels so bizarre and pushy to email back after an application/interview. I showed up and did my part, the balls in their court now, I'm just waiting for a response. To reach out again seems like I'm leaning over their shoulder and asking 'have you made a decision yet??? How about now, can I have a job now?' They already know what I want, what I can offer, and how to reach me. What more do they need? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] AtariDump@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago Their ego stroked, apparently. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] AtariDump@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago Their ego stroked, apparently. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Yoga@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jqubed@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 child) I usually get the thank you when they want to bring me to the next round of the hiring process. Maybe the thank you acts as a kind of signal that a party is interested in keeping the process moving? I’m sending a follow-up email if I’m eager to keep things moving (and it’s not simply “thank you for the interview;” I’m including a couple brief points reiterating why I think I’m a good fit). If I’m ambivalent or not interested I wouldn’t put the effort in. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 12 points 1 year ago This is how I've always understood them. If after you've had some time to digest how the interview went (and evaluate, based on the questions you (should have) asked during the interview, whether you think the position is a good fit for you) you still want the job, you send a quick email basically saying "Hey, thanks for meeting with me - it was nice to meet you / your team. Based on our interaction, it looks like this position would be a great fit for me / I'd be a great fit for it - here's some things I took away from it (which also serves to show I was attentive / not just going through the motions) - looking forward to hearing from you to continue the process!" To your point, it's not an ass-kissing email, the 'thank you' portion is just a polite formality to open the conversation. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 12 points 1 year ago This is how I've always understood them. If after you've had some time to digest how the interview went (and evaluate, based on the questions you (should have) asked during the interview, whether you think the position is a good fit for you) you still want the job, you send a quick email basically saying "Hey, thanks for meeting with me - it was nice to meet you / your team. Based on our interaction, it looks like this position would be a great fit for me / I'd be a great fit for it - here's some things I took away from it (which also serves to show I was attentive / not just going through the motions) - looking forward to hearing from you to continue the process!" To your point, it's not an ass-kissing email, the 'thank you' portion is just a polite formality to open the conversation. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Please_Do_Not@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago (4 children) It's not functioning as a thank you, it's honestly just an indication that you're willing to take an extra 5 minutes to do something when the stakes are high. If you really want the job, how you treat that conversation might be similar to how you treat a client once you're hired. If you don't really want the job, or you really don't want to send a thank you, that's fine, but with 5 applicants to choose from, wouldn't they opt for the candidate who put in the best/most work? I'm not saying it isn't annoying and transactional and a lot to ask, but as someone who's applied for hundreds of jobs, the reason to do it still feels clear. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments load more comments (4 replies)
[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago Most upvoted comment I've seen on Lemmy in a while permalink fedilink source parent
[–] bunitor@lemmy.eco.br 9 points 1 year ago* it's been my position for a while now that job interviews evaluate, more than anything, how much the candidate is willing to humiliate themselves for the employer. that's more important to employers than actual skill permalink fedilink source parent
[+] SARGE@startrek.website 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 month ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] christian@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago I’ll probably get a lot of downvotes for this, but I'm like 50/50 on this part being sarcasm, it doesn't read like that to me at all but it's also hard for me to picture expecting disagreement with a linkedin headcase to be an unpopular opinion anywhere outside of linkedin. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago There's a completely transactional reason for post-interview "thank you" notes, whether you're applying to college or for a job. It's to remind the person, who's probably interviewing a lot of applicants, of your existence and your qualifications. A good one includes a reminder of any parts where you think you shone. And if there's something you thought of later, it's okay to add that. If their ego makes them take your thanks as sincere sucking up, fine. But you really do it for yourself, and the "thank you" is pro forma. Of course this assumes you still want the position after having sat the interview. If not, feel free to ghost. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] modifier@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago I neither engage in it as an applicant nor value it as a hiring manager. It would be difficult to assess if this has hampered my career, but I am doing fine. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] entwine413@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago Because keeping the line of communication open is good. You're one of dozens of applicants, so you want them to focus on you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lizardking13@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago I'm a hiring manager and the thank you notes I sometimes get after an interview have absolutely no sway on my opinions. Sure it's nice, but for me personally it doesn't matter at all. It's just part of the "show" and I try to not care about that. However, I do encourage people that are applying for jobs and interviewing to send the thank you. It definitely doesn't hurt. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] atempuser23@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent