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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

years ago, i came across the phrase "resting bitch face" online somewhere. i don't know in what context i read it or where, but i do remember being utterly confused by the concept. like, what even is that phrase supposed to mean?!

and that consternation had only deepened and strengthened right up to the recent past when photos of jd vance began to surface. now it's 100% clear what the author of that long-forgotten post must have meant when they typed out those three little words.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 4 days ago (2 children)

That is not really what that phrase means though. That phrase refers to people whose neutral facial expression makes them look like someone unfriendly when the person behind it is not. In Vance's case this is not true, his inside is just as ugly as his outside.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Yep the resting face is not a good judge of character, the active one is much more telling, and in Vance's case it's "self-righteousness without contentedness to back it up". You can't be discontent with yourself and at the same time think yourself to be the pinnacle of insight, at least not without a hefty dose of neurosis, that is.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

No, the phrase doesn't have anything to do with being misleading or not. It just means they look like a shitty, bitchy person on the outside. It may or may not be accurate. It definitely sometimes is not.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

It specifically is about looking unapproachable, angry etc, when the person doesn't feel any of those emotions (hence the "resting" part, like resting heart rate). It means someone who is having fun but looking differently too. Bitchiness or shittiness doesn't factor in at all - the "bitch" in the name is a metaphor.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

"Misleading" does not need to be purposeful.

What you just described is like the textbook definition of "unintentionally misleading."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

They didn't say it was purposeful or not, just that it isn't always misleading... Sometimes someone can have RBF and actually be exactly like they look

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

[off topic]

I have at least one friend who says she has RBF. I beleive actress January Jones has said it, too.