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[–] 2 points 2 years ago (6 children)

This is going to come off terribly, but do you talk to many people IRL? There's no game here, just humans being humans.

That said, perhaps not your preferred types of humans, which is perfectly fine. If anything, not engaging people the way I describe here could be a filter for the kind of people you prefer to interact with. Really isn't anything wrong with that, though others may find it a bit constrictive.

If what you're doing makes you happy and secure in your relationships with people, then more power to you!

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  • [–] -1 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    No why the fuck would I talk to random people?

    And yes, charades is a game, it's not flirting.

    People don't want to be approached in public unless they are boomers or older.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    No why the fuck would I talk to random people?

    Maybe you should ease up on giving advice and making proclamations on how to talk to random people then

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  • [–] 0 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    That is how you talk to people.

    You don't unless they make it clear they want to be bothered.

    Sure if you are in a bar or a club that's expected, but anywhere else please ffs don't approach women.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    What is how you talk to people?

    Also I'm not sure how to square "unless they make it clear they want to be bothered" with your rejection of body language and subtlety.

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