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submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What do you mean tops?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

In case you are serious: opposite of bottoms.

In gay relationships there's usually a bottom (passive) person and a top (active) person.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Same for the Kink community as well

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Needs to be noted:

Top =/= Dominant

Bottom =/= Submissive

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i mean i'd say that's pretty standard for humanity in general, no? not really just a gay thing.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Yeah, I guess so yeah. But in gay communities is veeery notorious, as 2 tops or 2 bottoms will be a big sexual incompatibility.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Thanks for the explanation!