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If I had a nickel for every time someone says "this person's being a huge jerk to me but I think they might be neurodivergent"
(lemmy.world)
Regular reminder that being an asshole is not a symptom of any form of neurodivergence. (You can replace “neurodivergent” with depressed, anxious, bipolar, etc. and the diagram works equally well)
ETA: social faux pas, awkwardness, and genuine symptoms of neurodivergence don’t make you an asshole. I shouldn’t have to say this? An “asshole” is someone who enacts a pattern of abusive, controlling, harassing, and/or harmful behavior with no remorse or concern for how other people are affected.
That hasn't been my experience but the demographic I hang about still has some stigma associated with being ND, so they wouldn't "admit" to it unless it was relevant/apparent.
Curious if it's regional or age related.
For example, at work where there's a lot of 50+ people shaping the culture, I don't think ND would be seen as an asset.
However, to me those that grew up when Asperger's first hit the scene seemed more likely to treat it as "cool autism", and migrated over to "high functioning autistic" when the DSM ditched it as a distinct diagnosis. I seem to recall some commentary at the time that the Asperger's as a distinct diagnosis was more detrimental due to its popularity, and while formally the criteria for Asperger's versus Autism would be similar, there was a sense that people should be more reluctant to diagnose as autistic than they were to diagnose Asperger's.
I don't think ADHD ever enjoyed status as a "cool" diagnosis though, but certainly in the mid 80s was overdiagnosed in children.
the last couple years on tiktok, but its tiktok so whatever