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How do you get over a crush? (hexbear.net)
submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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It is kinda ruining my life lmao. I have never felt this strongly for anyone. When we talk, I can ride that high for days. But then she gives me (what I perceive as) the cold shoulder and the depression I feel... boy. It's been like this for months. I cannot go on, man.

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[-] [email protected] 25 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Don't build someone up in your mind. They're never what you want. Go off of the material things they've done that you like and also focus on the things you don't like

Also, friendly reminder to temper expectations. Women are often friendly with a lot of people because society demands it of them. Women also tend to be much more cuddly.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago

yea tru. thanks kristina.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Don’t build someone up in your mind

My life would be so much easier if I didn’t do this but that’s probably why I have a personality disorder diagnosis 🥲

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