Dating struggles - I'm only attracted to straight guys (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

13 comments fedilink hide all child comments

I transitioned ages ago and I'm recently out of a long term relationship. I've been trying to get back into dating, but even when I specify "masc for masc" all of the gay guys I meet are too feminine for my taste. I've been feeling a bit doomed, even sometimes questioning if I should have transitioned in the first place because it would be so easy to find an ideal partner if I hadn't, but the idea of being anyone but my true self is preposterous. Can any other guys relate to this? Any dating tips or specific dating app recommendations?

USA if it helps.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[-] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Super random, but check out a climbing gym if that’s something you’re willing to try. Go on an LGBTQ+ meetup night. Honestly one of the highest densities of masc queer folk you’ll find. To a point where as a more fem/fluid for fem/fluid person I struggle finding people I’m super in to.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Ironically a buddy of mine goes to our local climbing gym all the time, and has been trying to get me to join. I'll give it a shot! Thanks!

this post was submitted on 07 Dec 2024

30 points (96.9% liked)

Transmasc

789 readers

42 users here now

A community for all transmasculine people.

Support Hotlines

Rules

Follow the Blahaj.Zone instance rules.
No bigotry.
No harassment.
No spam.
Use NSFW tags when appropriate.

Resources

The Gender Dysphoria Bible // An in depth explanation of the types of gender dysphoria.
Sources for binders and packers // This Google Sheet lists pretty much everywhere you can buy a binder or a packer.
TransResources.info // Find trans resources in your country or state.

founded 2 years ago

MODERATORS

[email protected]