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I'll go first [CW racism]

"Did you know they just passed a law in Afghanistan that women aren't even talk to each other anymore?" - My Zionist cousin at Xmas dinner.

The rest of the family proceeded to spend half an hour ranting about how terrible Arabs are.

..so, how's your holiday been? yea

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think it might be time for you to also go no contact with her and take the dogs

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah. Probably. Then she probably would kill herself though.

I'm gonna pursue the dignitas proof to the end of the earth. When she can't provide it, a real intervention can take place. She can go to therapy, and so on.

And if she really is authentically attempting suicide every 4 months - well, I don't know what I'll do.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah. Probably. Then she probably would kill herself though.

Not your responsibility. That’s very emotionally abusive and manipulative narcissistic behavior. I hope you get therapy to help you get through this. Her behavior is not acceptable.

I’m a suicidal person (on and off, currently middling nothing active) and I don’t pull this shit on people. No one (other than my abusers as a child) is responsible for my emotions but me. What happened to me as a child fucked me up and those people who abused me and the others who failed me can rot in hell.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

All true, but also easier said than done.

oooaaaaaaauhhh

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago

Totally understandable!