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For example, I don’t use TikTok. I never have, and I never will, and I’d advise everyone else to get off the platform too. I genuinely believe it’s objectively harmful to people’s mental health and possibly even a threat to democracy. That said, I also believe people should be free to decide for themselves whether they want to use it or not, which is why I’m against the U.S. government banning it.

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[–] [email protected] 149 points 2 weeks ago (11 children)

I think many people on here, me included, would rather be using Reddit simply because of all the content.

[–] [email protected] 86 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Honestly tho it's been downhill over there. I'm getting old reddit vibes here and I'm cool with never posting on reddit ever again.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Reddit is still better for communities based around hobbies (at the moment at least) just due to it's shear size.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Look at the actual engagement on those hobby subreddits. Dont let the thousands of followers fool you. The big subreddits got bigger, but the smaller ones got smaller. I see niche groups with thousands of followers, but posts rarely break 100 upvotes/10 comments. Reddit is a hollowing shell right now.

I saw a post about Kids In The Hall on this site the other day. Go see how popular that is on reddit. You just gotta believe.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

That's actually a really good point.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Agree, hate to admit I sometimes still go there (no login) to check certain communities because they are completely dead on Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Idk why ppl can't just Google it get the info and leave.

Not that complicated. No one is forcing you to join.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I find discord servers are filling that in much better for me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I'm probably behind the times. How do you find stuff on discord?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

Garbage is more entertaining than the same 5 political posts reposted between 40 instances and the only OC being posts that bitch about Reddit. This place is NOTHING like old reddit.

Sorry but not sorry, this place is borderline worthless. Until sometime figures it how to keep every sub becoming a commission echo chamber this is an interesting experiment that is dead in the water.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It's not that bad, stop being a doomer. It's better than reddit is right now at least.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 weeks ago

Ironic language. Didn't be a dinner. That could fix up the place.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

no one's forcing you to be here talking about reddit

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh I'm sorry, I didn't realize stating the reality precluded me from having an interest in an open protocol or interest in seeing these communications evolve.

I guess my responding to the delusional post above was out of line and totally off topic 🙄

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I interpreted “old reddit vibes” to be more about there being an actual discourse on posts more than being about the subject matter of the posts. If you look at the comments on reddit, they all just agree with each other because they’re the most popular opinions so they get the most upvotes. The thing I like about here is that I can still read that popular comment, but there are few enough total comments that scrolling down a bit leads to discussions that would have been buried in downvotes there. But since they didn’t define “old reddit vibes” I could be misinterpreting as easily as you!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

This site being small really lends to the individual experience. Misinformation isn't on max here yet.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You do realize the entire format of reddit is designed to make "echo chambers". Every single reddit sub is an echo chamber and users have no options. At least here people can do what they want with no one to tell them how to run their community.

The only way to stop it from being a commission echo chamber is to push back or post the opposite stuff. They don't run many of the communities here like they do on reddit. The good thing about lemmy is getting downvoted doesn't restrict your usage of the site so you can make unpopular opinions without getting timed out like on reddit.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

And yet, it has more content and diversity 🤷‍♂️

The people are the problem.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

yeah it does but i dont think the people are the problem. Reddit has been around long, its a for profit company. It exploded in popularity at a time when there was no competition and now its entrenched itself as a dominate site that will be almost impossible to kill.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Block political communities

Block [email protected]

And if you really think this place is worthless, why are you still here?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Thanks to Lemmy, I don't feel a need to return to Reddit, but I agree that we're still essentially in "pale imitation" territory and I'm not sure if that will ever change.

In Twitter terms, it's like everyone left for Mastodon but are really just waiting for a Bluesky to come around. I'd prefer to keep whatever platform I use open and free, but I'd like "approachable and vibrant" along with it if possible, which Lemmy is still struggling to accomplish.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Maybe you just need to take a break from your phone for a few hours?

Also, check out different sorting methods (like most comments 6/12 hours)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Then why are you here bitching about it?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh I'm sorry, I didn't realize stating the reality precluded me from having an interest in an open protocol or interest in seeing these communications evolve.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If you hate a thing, it's really easy to avoid it usually, particularly in this case

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This is what I'm seeing here.

"Lemmy would be better if it wasn't an echo chamber. There's no variety in opinion."

"Well, if you don't agree with us you can leave!"

🤦🏻‍♂️

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Where "agree" means "don't find it to be a shitty platform"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Just seems like an odd thing to get defensive about.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

And it seems odd to me to use a platform to talk about how much you dislike it.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If you don't like it Giiiiiiiiiit out!

It's painful to see the technically adept push away everyone away.

The reason I was/am still here (for now) is this was the only true FoSS platform. I don't like that bluesky and meta are our best hope at an open platform.

But yeah fuck me for pointing out that this user base is toxic doomers who have poor communication skills.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

user base is toxic doomers who have poor communication skills.

Trying to make that one a fact eh?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 weeks ago

👌👍

Lemmy has an active and engaging user base.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 weeks ago

And some variety in the userbase as well. This is quite the echo chamber. Not that reddit wasn't but Lemmy is even worse in that sense.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Fuck reddit for several reasons, among them that it's too big.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

That bigness is bad in a lot of ways, but it's great for niche content. A big platform makes big communities horrible cesspools, but it makes small obscure communities actual communities

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Reddit as a site is superior to Lemmy, but ever since all the trash have flooded that place, I decided to leave. What I’m saying is that I would pbviously choose Reddit if we’d ignore the kind of people that are frequenting it, but since you can’t really ignore them when it comes to a social media, I use this site instead.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I think I've seen a fuckspez account on here as well

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

This is me. But fuck Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

I use Lemmy on mobile and (old.)reddit on desktop. They both serve their purpose and I have no complex about it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I prefer the content, but reddit as a service is absolute garbage. I still check in on it every once in a while because there's a question or something I see the answer to after googling it and I can't stand browsing there for more than a minute or two.

The sponsored content and ads are just everywhere and disguised like user accounts making a post or comment and it's infuriating. You can't even use reddit on your phone unless you download their app, browsing the web version is practically impossible because "they can't confirm you are over 18 for some of the content" as if they can confirm your age through the app and they don't care if you are on desktop.

Reddit is a garbage company when it comes to their users, they quickly became one of my top most despised companies up there with nestle

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'll be 100% transparent, should third party apps be allowed back I'd go immediately back. There just isn't much hobby related stuff here yet. I don't have the time or care to "be the change I wanna see"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I mean, yeah, obviously if they change the decision that made me leave I'll go back.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Nah. Smaller community is better. This site reminds me of old (old old old) reddit.

I do still use reddit for porn though. Until they do away with old.reddit

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm here for the distinct lack of content. I can browse for a bit, hit the bedrock loop of top 6hr, and come back hours later. It's not endless here... And it shouldn't be.

If I need info for a niche, I'll find a forum. Lemmy, reddit, etc are poor places for such things anyway.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I always try to use Lemmy, but Reddit is always more attractive to me because:

  1. The Sync for Reddit app works way better than Sync for Lemmy (I understand there are a lot of clients for Lemmy, which is good, but my brain got so used to it that I always struggle with other apps).

  2. I never used Reddit to browse mainstream media (like r/all) I always browse subreddits I liked and created multi subreddits of them, some examples of them:

Handhelds (SBCgaming, 3DS, PsVita, nds, PSP etc).

Media (Piracy, Arr stack, Stremio add-ons, Kodi add-ons etc).

As you can see none of those communities or similar are particularly big, so I think they have entirely enshitified... (Maybe just r/piracy lol).