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[–] [email protected] 157 points 1 year ago (10 children)

There is a bit of truth here. Toxic culture and out of touch management will make people walk as well.

Thing is, there might just be a wad of cash big enough to make me put up with that against my health interests.

Fuck ping pong tables though. No one left a company because they didn't have enough fucking table sports. If you think they are then you are the problem. Exit interview your own fucking arse.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Around 2012 I had a interview with a recruiter, he asked me what kind of company you're looking for, and I replied, one without a ping pong table, he laughed at me, I am an immigrant, left home when I was 19, so around 2008 went around in my country and EU, and already understood that whenever a company had a ping pong table it had a shitty culture, so by the time of that interview I already seen more than enough shitty companies, but I remember that interview in particular because the guy started making fun of me, laughing at me

11 years after, I wish I could speak with that recruiter to see if he understood that ping pong tables are low efforts solutions adopted by shitty-environment companies and if he would laugh at me again

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

He had to laugh at you, otherwise he would have cried because he knew you were right.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Lol he probably just thought you sucked at ping pong.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

One of the best bosses I ever had once told me that people will stay for the culture but leave for money. His philosophy was to try and ensure that money was not a factor in people's decision, then build as good a culture as he could.

And to be clear, by making money not a factor, I mean he paid well.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I had a meeting years ago with my company's CTO about my salary. He kicked off the meeting by saying "you care a lot more about what you make than I do" which prompted me to ask for 50% more than I had been planning to ask for. He agreed to it without argument. TBF he was a coke addict married to the daughter of the company's owner and within six months he'd been divorced and fired, but I got to keep my salary.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Phillip. Of course, we knew him better by the name his eventually ex-wife gave him on Facebook: "Ol' Three Inches Two Minutes".

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

"Man, my job pays horribly and the benefits barely cover anything, but they have a ping-pong table so it's honestly a tough call."

I struggle to understand how someone could seriously write something like that question without a lack of self-awareness so dire that a walk to the kitchen would come with a near-death experience. It just can't be real.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

That was beautifully put.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I think the truth is that it assuming it's the latter may not be enough. But the first two are even less likely. Additional responsibilities WITHOUT a raise is very, very unlikely to be what anyone was waiting for to stick around.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

This is what I came to say. Good management will make people stay for a long time with less pay.

But obviously HR doesn't get that lmao.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This is it right here!

Last time a job tried to hire me from my current position, it was all about the money, my company was willing to compete. I stayed with the company.

This time where I'm throwing applications like campaign pamphlets, I'm willing to take a cut in pay.

It is shocking how a year can have a company go to the shitter.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The flip side is if you can't be bothered to set aside some money for a ping pong table, as well have the sense to first ask around whether people would rather have foosball, or a proper pizza oven, or whatever the fuck, your company culture probably also sucks. A place for recreation means that you respect recreation and extend enough trust to have employees self-manage their need for it.

...of course, setting up that place only to have it be a hunting ground for micromanagers preying on unsuspecting workers is not what I'm talking about. If noone ever uses those areas, worry.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

yeah, the "not necessarily pay is accurate, but the "right" answer being ping-pong table pivots things from "ok, they have some understanding" to "incredibly tone deaf".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I mean not enough ping-pong tables could be reason to leave for a PE teacher or something