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[–] [email protected] 51 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Just don't date conservative men. First date, ask them their politics. It's literally that simple.

You should really have a suite of questions to weed out partners you don't want. This is what the first few dates are really for. Ask them their politics, if they voted, and who they voted for, their stance on abortion etc.

All you're going to get with this is friendly fire. Conservatives generally do not prefer leftist women.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Men will lie, especially if they're trying to get your clothes off. So a single question isn't quite enough. Maybe a discussion about politics on relevant issues, for example.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

As a man this is spot on. My old roommate "presented" as a neoliberal hippy with wood-bead bracelets, but would literally talk about how he wanted slaves so he didn't have to work. Some men are literally closeted Republicans that know if they are honest they will be sexless

Get yourselves a socialist, ladies. Neoliberals are just spineless republicans

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Neoliberals are just spineless republicans

love this. going to steal it and make it my new catchphrase.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

First of all, you'll be able to get their vibe from a political conversation unless they're very well informed and very intelligent, which conservatives generally are not.

Second, if you're forcing them to lie then it creates cognitive dissonance in their brain. So at the very least that can create genuine progress, as problematic as that may be.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

When I was in high school decades ago, debate club went to a convention and one of the debate rounds was "women shouldn't be allowed to vote". My very good looking friend (male) argued that they shouldnt and he was so charming and confident that he got crazy crazy laid for the rest of the event. I think it helped that we all sort of understood it was not reality but a chance to do debate flourishes, but still. What the hell is that? Its almost as if the topic itself and womens' resistence to it made him even more attractive.

He's a minor republican operative now-- we dont talk.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Good looking people will attract women. They clearly didn't think he was serious.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Maybe if you're a liberal. Conservative liars can't describe socialism either.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

You'd be surprised.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Source: Pretty much every episode of It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (and, of course, real life)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

They can't keep up that sort of lie for too long without the mask slipping. So it's a good idea to require a fair amount of together time before considering being intimate.

Especially the people who would be worth avoiding wouldn't have the patience and feel very entitled, so they are less likely to stick around for an early dating period.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Part of 4B is to avoid pregnancy, especially in an environment that has banned abortions and restricted contraceptives (e.g. Project 2025).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There is this crazy thing called condoms

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The failure rate may be considered unacceptably high for some people, hence 4B.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

https://youtu.be/bpgDe88r-yc?si=6Py1YiCpzZ5fsHZF

Very small. The VAST majority of the time that condoms fail is when they're improperly used. The amount of QA testing on them is enormous and very good.

Obviously for this reason you should buy a decent brand of condoms.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

If you don't want children, the risk is the same.