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The Dredge Tank. For posting all the low tier reactionary bullshit that you can't post anywhere else. Got some bullshit from Reddit with 2 upvotes and want to share, post it here.

This community was created with the purpose that Rule 8 fans will just block it.

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Tbh this whole post is a goldmine of cis lemmitors discussing how overly sensitive they think trans people are around pronouns.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 30 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You got a half dozen listed acceptable pronouns and they still misgendered you? That’s impressive.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

OPs app didn't display my pronouns, it honored the newlines I put in there

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'll never understand why people decide to use an app to duplicate the function of a website.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Me neither, but it means I get to try and fuck with them. I was hoping they would show the full display name with linebreaks rather than just the first line though.

Think about it, having the below displayed as username/display name

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

apparently the APP truncates it

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I know, saw that and was like, wtf. You have some of the most pronouns listed I have seen, and they somehow defaulted to he/him? That's ridiculous.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

To be entirely fair, I have been fucking about with my display name (adding newlines in it), and the user who got banned seems to have been using an app that was affected by this

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Ah, gotcha. Still, the ones defending the misgendering are fucked.

Still, that's good information to have, glad OP didn't seem to do it out of malice and owned up to it.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean, i get that people make mistakes, may not see pronoun tags etc., where it gets interesting is how people react when you mention to them they misgendered somebody and ask them to correct it. Like, you'll literally post "hey, this person's pronouns are (... / ...), your post misgenders that person, can you please edit this?" and they'll immediately go into berserk mode. It would take literal seconds to fix, but instead people like that will go and write post after post about how you're violating their freeze peach, and then on how rude it is to call them out on their transphobia, ad nauseam until they get the banhammer. And then they go to some instance where they aren't banned yet and whine about how fragile and mean hexbear users are.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Exactly, libs take one scratch and join the fash. It separates the well-intentioned from the people who were always internally transphobic.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

And none of them seem to get that they got banned for doubling and trippling down on the misgendering instead of "for just accidentally making a tiny mistake".

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago

I think they do get it usually, they just twist it when malding to stir up a hate-storm