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Anon misses something (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 2 years ago by [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 96 points 2 years ago (12 children)

I have been specifically and repeatedly told women at work don’t want flirting or any other interpersonal interactions. So that shit is shut completely off when in public.

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  • [–] 71 points 2 years ago* (11 children)

    And that's absolutely true! Until the one time it's not, and then it's your fault for not knowing.

    TBF, I normally go by "off limits unless they make an obvious move".

    Which the cashier definitely did. Of course, like the OP I wouldn't realize it till later...

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  • [–] 26 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    The hard part is the knowing that so called obvious move.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    But was it an obvious move, or did you read too much into the friendliness they're paid to show all customers?

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Without being there it's always a guess. But putting "You know" at the front like that is pretty damn explicit. She wasn't just making a random comment. That's like movie trope obvious.

    There are always outliers though, she could of had a brain fart, or he could have said something to make her believe he felt she was working late.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    could of

    could have

    Both in the same sentence. I rarely bother correcting grammar these days, but it's weird you know the correct way and also use the wrong way.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago

    That's when you ask things plain and simple. One of my exes was the manager for a fast food joint and at the end of her shift, sitting at my table and kinda chatting away. At some point I simply asked her "so are we going back to your place to make sweet love after that, or what?" with my french accent on full blast. It had the desired effect of making things clear.
    I wish I had had the balls to do that more often in my life!

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