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As someone with neurodiversity I recognize clothes have many layers, no pun intended. There are cultural significances and practical uses, these are the two main qualities of clothing. Culture eventually wins over the practicality of certain garments, people wear flight jackets without being pilots, people wear Stetson’s without being ranchers, I fit that second category. Living in this country I have been exposed to the common judgement passed by others, Americans love to observe a person and fish out their qualities so that they can equate them to something familiar usually attached to pop culture. Since I live in the city, wearing a rancher hat most people won’t care but some people will point and say “Ayyy I’m walking here” or “Howdy pardner” or some stupid shit.

Two years ago when I didn’t care about appearance I had many people point and laugh, one person I confronted said “when is x album coming out”, essentially comparing me to some washed up classic rock star who I looked nothing like. I walked back to their apartment after researching what they said and said some things which made them close their window and end their windowsill “comedy show” which was essentially what I mentioned before, the lowest form of comedy of making fun of appearances and comparing those features to someone else / pop culture references.

But the hat is seven hundred dollars.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (14 children)

There'd be the occasional guy from Texas or wherever interrogating us to see if we were "real" cowboys

I'm 100% sure these were guys from some hellhole suburb of DFW who drive lifted F350's to drop their kids off at football practice. Real cowboys, on the other hand, think they will be murdered by a street gang the second they set foot in a city, so you are unlikely to encounter them

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

I kinda want to be able to handle my own when confronted with someone who claims I’m not a genuine rancher. Like I want to look cool

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (3 children)

If they start asking questions cut them off and then ask if they're trying to start a dick measuring contest or get your number for a date

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

“I don’t say ‘howdy’ i dont have a green egg, I don’t know what temp or what wood to use for smoke, I don’t have a revolver pinned to my waist, I don’t chew tobacco, but what I do is look good and I don’t need your approval, partner” I tip my hat finish my whiskey and coke and leave

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

You sound so much like my drinking husband lol

That's exactly what he would do in that situation, and it's what anybody should do. He looks better in that getup than most anyway, and I'll bet you do too

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Green egg is a dated reference. If you're a cool kid in cowboy town you have a blackstone and a traeger smoker.

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