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All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.

Resources:

Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.

Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/

[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination

[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/

[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/

[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/

[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Things I've found out this week:

wearing a skirt makes me look pregnant (way too much belly fat)
makeup looks a lot better from a distance
eyeliner won't stick (tried liquid and pencil so far)
I have no idea how to do makeup
skincare makes a huge difference
camisole over t-shirt rocks!
buying clothes I like is fun!
still look like a fat old man in drag :(

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

For the eyeliner, wipe your eyes with a towel to remove excess oil. If you're trying to apply it to your waterline then idk, but you're not really meant to do that anyway as it can clog up ducts which then requires clearing by a doctor

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Thanks, I'll try that! My eyes are definitely very oily.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

The other problem you might have with oily eyes is creasing, basically as your open eyelid folds up, the eyeliner can collect in the creases.

I clean my eyes and use a very light moisturiser first, then towel to remove any excess. That usually saves most of it, but a little finishing powder or even just a neutral eye shadow will help prevent it too