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[โ€“] 19 points 2 years ago (7 children)

they're already transvestigating the shooter because he had long hair (also a moustache but they dont get trans people at all so it tracks for them). i try not to be very doomer about shit, but i dont exactly feel secure and im not even a yank deeper-sadness

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  • [โ€“] 18 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    spoilerEveryone just looking to demonize trans people makes me feel so hopeless. I'm so excited about the possibility of actually transitioning and being happy with it and then... there's this.

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  • [โ€“] 15 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    spoilerjust wanna live my life, wear my cat ears and get headpats. why they gotta fuck shit up for us constantly? the only people i can talk about these fears are the queer commies on my computer too.

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  • [โ€“] 12 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I have long hair and a beard and mustache. Plenty of reasons why a trans person might. For me, it's a combination of hiding I'm trans, laziness, sensitive skin that makes shaving more annoying, and not having time for laser during the summer because work.

    But some people like that kind of gender fuckery.

    Otoh, a lot of transphobes imagine trans women as just guys wearing women's clothes, so they probably don't get the nuance to even consider why a transfem person would have a beard or get how fear of violence against all trans people could potentially motivate someone to act in self defense like this...

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