or by people with more complex understandings of relationships and the social nature of humans.

it's like saying "eating an apple pie is better than pressing your face into the hot oven that baked the pie"

yeah. But that's not the only two options in life.

Yup.

That's okay. They'll remember me when they wake up next to someone who hates them and they have two or three screaming children that won't let them sleep.

Or people who thought the same way until they met someone.