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Have you been in a codependent relationship?

My transition has helped me realize just how bad the codependency was in my marriage. Things are really rough for me currently as we try and untangle the destructive habits.

I have never had a sense of identity outside of my relationship with my wife. Now that is changing, it means my marriage must change with it... or not.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

Have you been in a codependent relationship?

i can tell you about my last relationship privately, but it was obviously very different to your current situation

LGBTQ people are some of the most caring, sweet, and loving people

without question, i know this to be true of you

Just get started and follow what calls you

as you unearth your true self and undergo the journey into that unsettling unknown, don't let the uncertainty upset your unending urge for authenticity and self actualization

i send you love 🪄✨💖💜💗💜💖✨