But if it's locked up, it takes too much work when you want to wave it around feeling badass.

Knowing you are the reason your kid is dead. Or maimed. Christ how do you live with that?

I like guns, I don't currently own any, that will probably change at some point in my life, but one of the several reasons I don't have one is because I don't have any space in my house that I'd want taken up by a gun safe.

I don't even have kids and I don't plan on having any, I can count the amount of times there has been a child in my house on one hand with fingers to spare, and if I have it my way my count will never reach my other hand, and the only time those children were out of an adult's immediate supervision while they were here was when they were in the bathroom, but I can't guarantee that will always be the case, I don't know what friends or relatives may bring kids over and what may happen that will distract us from what they're doing.

I live in a pretty safe neighborhood, but break-ins happen, and I don't want my guns out on the streets, so not only will my safe be merely child-proof, it's also going to be securely bolted to the wall and/or floor, and it's going to be hard to break into, and ideally hidden from sight. No one's getting guns out of my house against my will without at least some time and power tools.

Should my wife or I ever have a mental health crisis, I want to make sure that we have the means to secure those guns until we can get them out of the house by changing the combo or hiding the keys or whatever (and that would also be the end of guns in our house for good)

Anyone who doesn't think of these kinds of circumstances has no business owning a gun.