Yea I get it..traefik very intimidating at first but I sware if you play around with it for a day or two like a lighbulb will just turn on..it's super confusing at first. Obtaining certs should be fairly easy and in terms of dashboard..that shouldn't be that hard to access either

What's not working with traefik? I like the traefik dashboard since it kind of helps troubleshoot things. I'll admit traefik isn't the easiest reverse proxy to work on at first but it clicks after a period of time. You can do wildcard certs with traefik as well

Latency is a real issue. I've run Minecraft servers at home and through digital ocean. Latency is real particularly with a lot of players. I kind of have up after my son kind of graduated out of Minecraft phase. I did an inordinate amount of tweaking. Looking back..I probaby would not do it again

Honestly just install wireguard on client and they use that to remote access the server when away from lan network

But I do run my vaultwarden on arch...no one gives a shit

What backend of vaultwarden are you using? Mysql or Mysql lite or postgresql?