Spotify for finding new music and most of my listening.
I'll buy vinyl for my favorite albums or if I see something at the record store that takes my fancy.
I'll usually listen to my records while cooking or if I want to just sit and listen as a primary activity
I'm curious what difficulties you encountered, I signed up at beehaw where i had to write a response to why i wanted to join, but even then my account was manually reviewed by a human and when i checked an hour later, I was signed up.
Other communities don't have such rules. I managed to create an alt account on another server and i was signed up immediately, equally as fast as reddit.