[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

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Would any of you be potentially interested in having me transfer the community over to you, and having you become the head mod, instead of me?

Im still planning on sticking around, I'm just too busy to be the Head Mod.

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Idk.

I'm currently using Summit for Android, but i would assume any app would work.

Another good app that I know of, that is Cross-Platform, is Voyager, which is available on both Android and iOS.

It also allows users to choose which UX layout they prefer: iOS or Android.

Welcome to the team.

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submitted 3 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

Hey y’all,

I’m currently looking for a few more moderators to help keep this space running smoothly.


I started this community as a space for trans folks to talk about firearms, community defense, safety, gear, training, and self-empowerment — without having to wade through the usual toxic nonsense found elsewhere, as well as to (hopefully) give the users of r/transguns a space to go to, in case anything happened to the subreddit.


It’s been awesome to see people join, but I’m also modding a ton of other communities across Lemmy, as well as dealing with stress, and declining mental health, and it’s starting to pile up.

If you care about building a knowledgeable, inclusive, and principled space for trans gun owners and allies, I’d love to have your help.


No modding experience needed — just a solid sense of community and a willingness to check in when you can.

Drop a comment, if you’re interested.

In solidarity and safety, – Teknevra

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Welcome Aboard.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

You're all set.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Thank you very much, you're all set.

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Hey fellow gamers,

Just wanted to drop a quick post — I’m currently looking for a few extra mods to help out with thus community.

I started this community to create a fun, welcoming space for queer gamers to connect, share games, memes, and support each other, as well as give the Users of r/Gaymers a place to go, if anything were to happen to the Subreddit.

It’s been great to see folks trickling in, but the sad truth is... I’m stretched a bit thin.

I moderate a ton of other communities across Blahaj and other accounts, and it’s starting to get a little overwhelming.

My Mental Health isn't doing so great, either.


If you love queer gaming, and want to help keep this space chill, inclusive, and active, I’d love to have you on board!

No prior mod experience needed — just be engaged, and aligned with the vibe we're trying to create here.

Comment below, if you're interested. 🎮💖

– Teknevra

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submitted 3 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

Hey comrades,

Quick post to say: I’m currently looking for more moderators to help run this space.

I started this community with the goal of building a strong, supportive, and resilient community for queer folks — especially those who believe in organizing, mutual aid, and standing up for one another, as well as (hopefully) bring r/Queerdefensefront to the Fediverse, in case something happens/happened to the Subreddit.

But right now, I’m stretched pretty thin.

I’m already moderating a bunch of other communities across Blahaj and other instances, and it’s getting a bit overwhelming.

My Mental Health isn't doing so good, either.

If you're down to help keep this space active, safe, and focused, I’d really appreciate it.

You don’t need tons of experience — just a commitment to the values of the community and a willingness to check in when you can.

Feel free to comment below, if you're interested or want to know more.

Solidarity always ✊🏽 – Teknevra

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Salaam everyone,

I hope that you're all doing well.

I wanted to reach out and let you know that I'm currently looking for a few more moderators to help out with this community.


I originally created this community as a way to provide a space for queer Muslims to connect, support each other, and share experiences.

It was also my hope to offer an alternative space for folks coming from r/queermuslims who might be looking for a new home.


That said, I'm currently a bit overwhelmed, and my mental health isn't doing that great.

I moderate quite a few other communities — both here on Blahaj and through some other accounts — and it's getting tough to keep up with everything on my own.


If you’re interested in helping out (or even if you're just curious about what modding might involve), please feel free to comment below.

Whether you have experience or not, all I ask is that you care about the space and want to help it grow.

Thanks so much for being here 💖

– Teknevra

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The author announced in a Saturday post to X, formerly Twitter, that she would be founding the J.K. Rowling Women's Fund, using her personal fortune. The website for the group states that it "offers legal funding support to individuals and organisations fighting to retain women's sex-based rights in the workplace, in public life, and in protected female spaces."

"I looked into all options and a private fund is the most efficient, streamlined way for me to do this," she said. "Lots of people are offering to contribute, which I truly appreciate, but there are many other women's rights orgs that could do with the money, so donate away, just not to me!"

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Note: This isn’t an exact all, but a collection of very similar repeating patterns. And while I might be looking around those that happen to mostly be white, cisgender gay men, they can exist in any queer demographic, as “Pick Me” mfs pretty much exist in every type of demographic.

Some time back, there was a post I saw about someone asking about Log Cabin Republicans, and as the post and comments went it made me wonder about this other kind I saw. Usually with Log Cabin Republicans, they try to hide anything queer-coded and will stay on the sideline quietly. For the kind I notice, while they also support the status quo and bootlick their oppressors, they’ll try to be all open and proud about it. In addition, they’ll double down on queer stereotypes and get OVERLY obnoxious with it, almost like denial.

With how they usually treat other queer minorities, it’s usually:

  • Mock and berate lesbians
  • Demonize and (ironically) slut-shame bi/pan men and women
  • Treat trans-women like they’re crossdressing gay men or drag queens (transfolk can be drag queens, but you get what I mean)
  • With transgender people in general, when they’re not mocking and berating them, they’re treated like some sort of pet on display
  • For racial minorities (and in general people that aren’t white, especially those that are queer), they really double down on the racism. Even with “positive” intentions, they view them like some sort of freak in a freak show.
  • A bit unrelated, but I also sometimes notice how with cisgender, straight (typically white) women, they either will go full woman-hating misogyny, or act like they’re the greatest thing in the world, no in-betweens. Just a pattern I noticed.

And while they aren’t as huge/common like in the 90s-00s, they still have a lot of influence. Speaking of influence, they seemed back then to really be more amongst circles of queer tv writers and creators. Ryan Murphy, to some extent Marc Cherry, creators of Sex and the City, etc., but usually they get away with their shitty behavior on the count of being “revolutionary” or just a “product of their time”.

The ultimate reason I ask about this is because of the distinction. While a Log Cabin Republican typically would stand on the sideline quietly, this kind of Pick-Me will try to act like they’re all open and proud, but like being proud of being underneath and wanting to be recognized as accepting their role in society as being lesser. What would this kind be called?

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Husband alleges shooting motivated by homophobia.

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Over the course of this past week, we made the decision to shut VIVID down.

We were tired. Burned out. Fighting through too much noise and too little support.
External pressure came from every side, and we truly believed stepping away was the only option.

But then last night happened.

We started getting messages. From Reddit. From Discord. From people we didn’t even know were still watching.
People asking if we were okay.
People asking why it had to end.
People telling us not to go.

So in the spirit of VIVID, built from the beginning on defiance, community, and truth, I’d like to make an announcement.

To every queer person.
To every trans soul fighting just to exist.
To every kid who’s watching and wondering if anyone is still in this fight.

This is our country. This is our home.
They’re gonna need a fucking wrecking ball to take us out of here.

We’re here.
We’re queer.
And we’re not fucking leaving.

Every motherfucker who tried to silence us, choke on your hate.
Every group that abandoned us when it counted, fuck you and your fake solidarity.
To the government still passing laws to erase us, fuck your fear and your power grabs.
And to every so-called ally org that posts rainbows but disappears when it gets hard, fuck your performative progress.

But to those who do show up.
To the ones who fight. To the ones who lift us up. To the ones who put their bodies on the line and refuse to let us be erased.
We fucking love you.

You are the reason we’re still standing.
You are the reason we didn’t give up when it would’ve been easier.
You are the reason we’ll keep going.

So let them come.
Let them try.
We’re not going anywhere.

Welcome to Pride Month, bitches.
This is our month.
This is our time.
We will not apologize for being loud, for being visible, for being proud of who we are.

VIVID is here to stay.
And if you try to stand in our way, you better get the fuck out of it.

Happy Pride.
Now get the fuck out of our way.
Now we’ve got work to do. Let’s get going and let’s be proud.

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It breaks our hearts to say it, but as of June 1, 2025, VIVID is shutting down for good.

This wasn't an easy decision. We fought like hell. We tried everything we could. But too much came at us from too many angles, and we couldn't keep going the way we were.

All donations will be fully refunded over the next 5 to 7 business days.

To every person who stood beside us, who believed in us, who showed up when it mattered — thank you. You gave us purpose. You gave us hope.

But hear this loud and clear:

Just because the organization is ending doesn’t mean we are.
We’re still here.
We’re still loud.
We’re still queer.
And we’re still not fucking going anywhere.

They can try to silence us.
They can try to bury us.
They can throw every law, insult, and headline at us.

We don’t care.

VIVID may be gone.
But our fight is not.

So here’s our final word:

F.U.C.K.
Fight. Unite. Challenge. Keep going.

With love, truth, and absolutely no apology,
The VIVID Team

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submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

Salam alaikum

I’m a straight Muslim man and I’ve been talking to a sister for marriage who recently told me she’s a lesbian. I came here because I want to better understand what this might mean from her side I’m not here to judge just trying to gain clarity and insight before making a big decision.

She’s an incredible person in terms of deen prays all her salah including tahajjud doesn’t use social media beyond a private IG and Pinterest doesn’t follow celebs ect and she’s studying Qur’an fulltime. She even convinced her dad to let her drop secular education to focus entirely on Islamic studies. She’s quiet kind and really carries herself with humility and sincerity.

When she told me she was a lesbian I was surprised but she explained that when she was younger, an imam had her swear on the Qur’an that she’d marry a man and never pursue women. She said she’s comfortable being a wife to a man and wants to marry me. She’s clear about wanting to do things the halal way and I believe her intentions are sincere.

Her family is traditional and I get the sense her father kind of knows but like in many households, it’s not something that’s spoken about unless it becomes unavoidable.

I guess what’s confusing me is this she says she wants to be with me but I keep wondering is this truly what she wants or what she’s always been told she should want? I respect her faith and honesty so much and I’m honored she’d even consider me. But I’m scared of being part of something that could end up hurting both of us her feeling unseen me feeling like I was chosen more out of duty than love.

I don’t want to make assumptions about her experience so I came here hoping for insight. If anyone has been in a similar situation either as the queer person or the partner I’d really appreciate your perspective thank you.

May Allah guide us all and make things clear.

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

That would be great.

Thank you.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

What about using Matrix ?

I'm pretty sure that you can bridge Matrix with WhatsApp.

Matrix.Org - Bridges

https://github.com/mautrix/whatsapp

[-] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

I thought that it was the Cuck Couch?

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