RBWellsV23

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

30 or 32d or dd I would guess. They fit the rest of you, so proportionate size is another way to put it.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We have sex at least once a day, every day since we got together. Once you start you may not want to stop, it's great.

I want to modify no shave November and stop plucking my legs so they can heal - it was my workaround to stop other crappy anxious habits.

I think it's good to do oddball fast, always do a Dry July, no drinking, and a no Amazon August, no online buying of anything. It's kind of impossible to do either once the holiday season starts, so good to sort of reset. Would never fast from sex though, not voluntarily.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I don't think it looks that weird. I would say just shave the parts you want & trim the parts you want. Husband shaves balls but trims the rest, it's fine except day-of (sharp stubble is rough) but he has finer textured hair. I (F) just shave everything down there because we haven't had funds for waxing but my hair is more coarse so it's an every day or two thing.

Basically I think even a kind of sudden transition won't look silly, pubes are already a transition if you leave them alone, unless you really have a pelt.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

It is so fuzzy, can't tell but I don't think anyone is that smooth. The shape is probably just her posture, throwing her butt back.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Literally, lol.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago

I like my (small) boobs best naked, overall I think my build looks best without clothes, the horizontal lines and slight squish irritate me, I hate putting on a swimsuit and looking worse instead of better. Jeans and T-shirt, that stuff looks fine, my husband once remarked that I looked the same dressed and undressed, which was a funny comment but it's true.

Big boobs look better to me when supported though, that shape in a good bra is so pretty. Guys often look better in clothing even if they look good naked too. Clothing is decoration and naked is plain, maybe you just enjoy bodies adorned with clothes.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Boob twins! Small don't fall, sister! If you don't like them now you will in a few years :)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I don't quite understand thinking fake images are hot as fuck, they aren't real?

But you aren't hurting anyone, your friends need to chill. Enjoying the life you have is a good life, by definition. You don't have to decide what you are doing for your whole life right now either, if you change your mind later you can change your life then.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh, so more like you are asking how actualized are your kinks? I think that is a good question. I spent a stupid long time waiting for my sexuality to evolve and turn into what I considered the 'real' adult woman sexuality, which involved getting off on taking charge. Like, even though my very earliest sexual fantasies were about being forced (not even sexually, necessarily) and never about anything except that power play stuff, I really truly thought I ought not want it, that it was some sort of unfinished or lazy thing. One day had a revelation that if any of my friends had some kink I'd be so accepting of them, never ever would I think they needed to change, so tried to give myself the same consideration, and am much more in alignment now. So in the scale of acceptance, maybe 8 or so. But I do not agree that everyone 'vanilla' is repressing hidden depths of perversity. I think many, probably most people really aren't. Even those with a healthy sex drive. And no way does everyone have the same levels of general need, it took me 40 years to find a guy who runs as hot as me, get it every day now for about 15 years :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

So you would put more people as kinky because you think most are repressing very dark shit? Maybe, but seems like most people I know kind of don't care that much about sex, if that makes sense. If it's more like violence that just sometimes finds a sexual outlet, is that even kinky?

The 1-5 I'd put as:

1 is asexual, do not even feel desire at all.

2 the demisexual who can kinda enjoy it if you do but really are just doing it for someone else they wouldn't bother for themselves.

3 the people who have to be in love to feel sexual desire, they can be 'unlocked', basically, it's just part of love to them. May actually do more variety of stuff but only for someone else, really do not feel independent sexual desire but love and sex entwined.

4 I think of as the normal people who can enjoy sex as an activity, outside of a relationship just for physical pleasure but it doesn't pull at them so hard, and they don't want unusual stuff just sex. Probably don't seek out sex specifically, but dates,

5 the normal people who are more adventurous, and who get frustrated sooner, have a more active sex drive and will seek out sex partners, will go outside their comfort zone if a partner suggests it. Sexually active normal people I don't think of as kinky.

I just think probably a very large chunk of people just don't prioritize sex or need anything very specific.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)
  1. I've done and enjoyed stuff I think most people haven't, and a slap is still faster than a kiss and none of my fantasies are about plain sex, but I enjoy plain sex every day, and counting down I think that:

10 is people who want something that will kill them or someone else.

9 is people who want something that would land them in jail, or literal fetishists who get off on something that doesn't include what most of us think of as sex, and only that.

8 is people who need something other than plain sex or can enjoy things that most of us find too gross

7 is people who identify mostly as their kink but can enjoy sex without it

Which would leave me at 6. I think way more people are in the 1-5 group than the 6-10 group, it's not an even distribution. If you are asking where I'd land in the general population of women, that would probably be a different answer.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This is great. The beginning reminds me of the song Crazy on You where she says "but I tell myself that I was doing alright, there's nothing left to do tonight" the finally letting go.

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