MeatfuckerDidNothing

joined 3 years ago
 

This person was doing the bit where they were misgendering a hypothetical bigot to prove a point and I told them that "misgendering even hypothetical people is never okay because it suggests that being gendered properly is conditional" and they got defensive and I pulled the "youre cis, shut up and listen" card when they started calling me aggressive (I was coddling them up until that point)

I would like the perspective of other non-cis leftists on this

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I see the "watch andor" proselytizing swarm is keeping up the good work

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Do you have any suggested reading for the critiques?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Harry De Bois vibes

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

As a former 19 y/o who was having sex with people that age and older- it entirely depends, but if you've done kink and consent education you probably have better boundary skills than most adult USians, and more experienced people showing you the ropes is nice.

But this is coming from a lesbian perspective and 19 y/o shouldn't be dating 26 y/o.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Do you know where I could find reputations of the economic calculation problem?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

“He got better about it before he died” canards and they suck too

Yeah, this is a prime example of something that is true but used to justify shitty behavior or beliefs.

The modern day equivalent would be if JK Rowling moderated her shitty beliefs and Potter stans decided that made her books unproblematic

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Ugh the Ana thing: no, it isnt ableism to be mad at someone who:

  1. Claims a position of moral superiority and works at Lockheed Martin

  2. Claimed to live entirely off of patron and donations from poor trans disabled folks while literally working at Lockheed Martin and owning a 400k home

  3. took part in justifying the harassment of Isabel Fall.. perhaps because her story was about the weaponization of queer identity by the military industrial complex

That people are comparing this to like... unreasonably canceling any other trans person kinda sickens me. There is a difference between being fucked up and doing fucked up shit (or not actually, just people making shit up about you) and being a collaborator in weapons manufacturing

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

This stuff is a pretty transparently part of the reaction against metoo yeah.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I used to not care and then I realized that the way Depp is suing Heard for defamation also sets a precedent for talking about abuse you suffered being something you're civilly liable for

Upon further research Depp is a real scumbag. The Manson Salo thing is the most obvious example to point to

 

You want to make star trek more of a left utopia than a liberal one. What changes do you make to the federation? What changes do you make to the setting at large?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 years ago

It is her gay sports anime we are just living in it