LolaFawn

always have to honor Lana

I think you mean to say that you're interested in finding a dominant partner, and you'd like to know if there are any signs to look out for to find one? Let me know if I'm misunderstanding, but otherwise-- no, not really. A site like Fetlife might fit your needs, where local people will present themselves in a kink-forward way, so you can just see ahead of time who's into what you're interested in

sorry for the late reply. I understand your point, but it still illustrates how little contribution an OC community will see from true amateur women with rules like that in place. communities will simply need to decide between allowing men and still having a relatively healthy amount of posts (but they will be mostly of penises), or disallowing men and just not having a lot of content. the choice was easy for r/bigonewild because it was already a space for people who like men. I'd say r/gonewild is a notable exception, but it's also got a massive viewership that many people will leverage to build an audience before posting their paid links on profile and then receiving a ban. not that there are no unpaid women on that subreddit, there are, but that's a factor.

Re-read the original comment. Everyone on this thread is talking about OC (aka interactive amateur) communities. If you don't like that, don't go to OC communities. Also, you seem kinda unpleasant in general

You're welcome!!

I dunno. Maybe I'm just being the salty OF girl, but it doesn't seem like anyone at all (on Reddit, not here) is willing to do anything besides grumble about advertisement when the subject comes up. I see mods of nsfw subreddits get downvoted to hell when they say they won't be banning Onlyfans users from posting, followed by tons of upvoted "where are the reeeeal women?" comments. The complaint comments get upvoted more than actual, perfectly good content posted by regular women. I just wish they'd be a little more supportive when those women do post, I suppose.

That being said, I totally agree that people should watch and make porn for whatever reason they please!!

I'm gonna be really blunt here, idk how it'll be received, but: without women who are paid to be naked, there will be very, very little content in OC porn communities.

I just see so many people on Reddit claim to only love "true amateur" content, but that content almost always gets hugely downvoted or goes unnoticed on the big subreddits. I think it's because people who don't profit from their stuff aren't always trying to make content with the widest appeal possible. They don't tend to care as much about being perfectly lit up so every nipple detail is visble. Or about getting the pose just right. Many won't want to show their face. You'd think the clearly true amateur stuff would be more celebrated, but it seems people want to see women make huge amounts of pro-level content just for funsies. That's not really realistic.

just being nice is good. keeping the focus on the picture or title and not on yourself as the person commenting is also good. "you have great tits, they look gorgeous!" vs "your tits make my cock so hard and ready to cum on them".

if there's a sexy title that invites sexy responses (like a question or whatever) I don't think there's anything wrong with answering it. just don't go overboard and turn it into a paragraph of sext.

being rude or implying the poster isn't good enough for you is always cringe, unless you're on a kink subreddit dedicated to that kind of thing.

agree! Tits are tits and tits are hot

honestly, I'm into all types of tits 🤷‍♀️

yay, thanks!

thank you so much!