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Just got laid off, as did ~10% of expensive employees in the company. I was notified on Monday with Friday being my last day. I had complete access to production systems right up until I logged out today (okay, stupid on their part, but I'm not going to fuck with my surviving teammates). My severance package is ridiculous, like take the next six months off and think about life levels of generous. Three months of health insurance. All of my accrued PTO. And a commensurate portion of my long term rewards package, even though my contract says early separation means I get nothing.

So, while the majority of companies are soulless, soul-sucking black holes of greed, there are exceptions out there. Hm... in my experience, the exceptions all seem to be privately held AND not owned by some other shitty holding company.

While I owe nothing to any corp, my professional reputation and the regard of my teammates mean everything to me. I got this job because the hiring manager was a former teammate elsewhere. Not screwing over these work relationships is how I'm going to land just fine. I have a long list of C-suite, managers, and teammates upon whom I can rely for referrals and job opportunities.

Is being pleasant and professional always going to work in your favor? Fuck no. But pissing in the well of good will always works against you.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 days ago (1 child)

    Okay, since you're a DIYer, check out some tool battery teardown videos. Those are basically the same as bicycle batteries but on a smaller scale. If anything, bike batteries will generally be easier to work on because they tend to be screwed together rather than glued. Safety with high current will the key factor you want to learn, e.g. use non-conductive tools as appropriate. Regarding that damaged clip, my first instinct is that it should be a simple replacement. Should be a matter of soldering in a replacement connector and securing it in the slot. Make sure the battery receiver is in good shape, i.e. if the mount on the bike is damaged, this will just happen again.

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  • [–] 10 points 4 days ago

    The emotionally mature thing to do with have been for you and your boss to have distanced yourselves from each other. If your boss still wanted to divorce his wife after focusing on his marriage, then he could proceed. And THEN, once the divorce was real y'all could start to consider hooking up.

    As things are now, if anything starts to go wrong with you and your fuckbuddy, the tendency in human nature is to blame you for having left his wife.

    Oooor, rather than throwing away the entire marriage, some ENM arrangement could have been examined.

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  • [–] 10 points 4 days ago (3 children)

    This should be a simple repair is you're a DIY kind of person. If you're not experienced with electronics, specifically Li-ion batteries and the corollary precautions, get yourself all learne up first.

    I suggest looking at iFixit, they may even have a guide for TranzX batteries. Your next resource would be Grin Technologies (https://ebikes.ca/).

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    I just finished "Yesteryear" by Caro Claire Burke. Prima facie, it's satirical commentary on influencer culture, the glossy facade hiding the cesspool of social media brands, and the tradwife movement. More deeply, the novel draws attention to a wide array of points:

    • the challenges of balancing our public and inner personae
    • the lies we tell ourselves when things go well or go badly
    • the myth of the self-made person (basically "lies," above)
    • the immense weight borne by women in traditional gender roles
    • the fundamentally man-child aspects of the manosphere
    • the disinformation campaigns of the rural vs urban lifestyles
    • the cognitive dissonance required to be a tradwife influencer

    I do some computer and video editing work for a couple far less sanctimonious social media brands. Burke captures and perfectly characterizes the mental toll and physical toil of maintaining a specific public image. Even when not lying about the nature of reality, there is still a huge amount of work involved in just making things camera-ready. For example, clutter tends to look bad on camera, getting the lighting right so that things show up properly is a perennial struggle, editing for an enjoyable flow is complex work, etc. These aspects get a good amount of ink.

    As if on cue, NYT suggested this article this morning (gift link): https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/24/style/ex-tradwife-influencer-bernadine-bluntly.html?unlocked_article_code=1.GVE.2dtb.Qd-iJrloTskB

    [–] 3 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    When Voyager was in first run, I was dating a Trekkie woman who had a breastfeeding toddler. Whenever Seven of Nine came on screen, her kid would get hungry regardless of how recently he'd fed. :D It reached the point where she would record the show, and we'd watch after her kid went to bed.

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  • [–] 6 points 6 days ago

    Okay, sure, the divisive narrative is effective and everyone should be vigilant regarding any such language. On the other hand, my own Conservative immigrant mother is a glowing example of... all of it. I won't bore y'all with galling "I pulled myself up with my own bootstraps" illusory truth effect of which she's convinced herself. But this mindset is pervasive and durable. It seems almost deterministic among Strict Father Model people that they can't see how they stand on the shoulders of giants.

    I'd sure love to hear any ideas anyone might have in undermining this self-dialogue that people use on themselves.

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    What I like about Kool Stop is that they have a compound for every situation. https://koolstop.com/pages/brake-pad-compound-description

    I think Kool Stop is the best possible rim brake pad option for most contexts. It's just super important to match the pad compound to the predominant conditions. The multi-compound pad always gives me warm fuzzies. If you need to swap pads often, consider getting cartridge pads ("holder" I'm Kool Stop parlance).

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    I'm a total reteogrouch and loves me my classic rim brake bikes.

    That said, here are a few factors in favor of disc brakes: Superlative modulation, all-weather capability without resorting to highly abrasive pads (e.g. Kool Stop salmon), zero rim wear, no aluminum oxide dust getting everywhere (ridiculously destructive substance), reduced rotational mass, superlative fault tolerance, auto-adjusting for wear (in the case of hydraulics), able to use very different wheelsets without having to fiddle with brake adjustments, easier initial setup, dead simple pad replacement without any fiddling with pad toe-in.

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    TL;DR: what are your tricks to keep the interior air of a house pleasant when living in a stinky locale?

    For the next couple years, I am stuck on land* in a house that is occasionally downwind from a paper mill. Holy hell, the smell can be eye-wateringly bad when the winds blow just the wrong way. The house is ~1700 square feet with HVAC.

    *I normally live on my sailboat and move around at will.

    I have an ozone generator for serious de-stinking, but wow ozone is nasty even in small quantities. I have a Corsi-Rosenthal box, but that does nothing for smells. I was thinking maybe a big tray of activated charcoal in the HVAC intake and another in the CR box. In my experience, the tiny charcoal filters in most air cleaners get saturated in about 48 hours. What works for y'all? Super extra bonus points for ongoing maintenance and cost-reduction tips and tricks.

    Thank you fellow Lemmings for anything ya got.

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    "inflammation is now understood to be a key mediator of OA that contributes to cartilage loss and progressive degeneration of affected joints... OA is no longer considered a noninflammatory arthritis or a 'wear and tear' disease"

    I heretofore thought age-related cartilage loss was the cause of osteoarthritis and inflammation. Turns out it's the other way around: the inflammation degrades cartilage. Okay, no more slogging through joint pains for me, regardless of how small.

    Edit: added a phrase for clarity

     

    I'd wanted to jump to Linux since the 90s, but it was never quite there for me, plus my day jerb requires me to be on Windows. I finally started ripping the band-aid off a couple years ago and it's been amazing. I received a private message in response to a long-running issue I was having with my dGPU, and that person absolutely got me squared away by suggesting I give Aurora Linux a try for use cases.

    Win10 at some point stopped recognizing my beloved FiiO E10 USB headphone amp despite it supposedly being class-compliant. Nothing I did could get any Windows machine to recognize it. Today, I found that amp in a drawer. I plugged it into one of my Aurora Linux machines, and the OS immediately recognized it. Works great and gave me back the headphone sound that I know and love.

    So thank you all, for this community, for your contributions, for paying forward the Linux love. Have a great day all.

    New Cookbook Day! (thelemmy.club)
     

    My partner surprised me with a Yuto Omura's Japanese cuisine cookbook. I've been trying his recipes from his site (https://sudachirecipes.com/) and YT channel for about a year now. Every single recipe of his I tried has been an absolute slam dunk, sometimes helping me solve a particular recipe I've been trying to dial in for years (or decades). "Hm, sure, I'll get around to buying his cookbook at some point."

    Oh, wow, I wish I'd gotten this book sooner.

    There are elucidating primers and explanations, beautiful photographs, and just enough text to get you to your destination. The book + site + YT channel are force multipliers for each other. Even though I was using his website a lot, there are some recipe refinements in the book as he found tweaks and improvements. Yamitsuki (https://sudachirecipes.com/izakaya-salted-cabbage/), for example, has some tweaks in the book that I would have never imagined on my own.

    And if you've never made yamitsuki, do yourself a huge favor. The website version of the recipe has been my most requested side ever. That shit gets mowed. down. Every time. Omura isn't kidding when he calls it addictive.

    In addition to the great content, this is one of the best designed cookbooks I own: lay flat binding, two bookmark ribbons, a serious index (rather than an afterthought jammed into as few pages as possible), and a matte finish on the pages so that your fingerprints don't muck up the images. A lot of thought went into making a cookbook that people would want to use.

    Edit: two words.

     

    Braised lamb hindshank on Punjab coconut cream curry with cashew, apricot, kale, and peas. The lamb is from a local rancher. Coconut cream is what I had available, which was almost too rich. Oh, who am I kidding? Coconut cream was amazing!

    I prefer soltanas for this kind of curry, but apricots are what I had; the substitution worked great. I seared and braised the shank in a little bit of lamb stock I made from another meal, then crisped it up under the broiler right before plating. The result was crispy, creamy, almost-fall-off-the-bone meat.

    As a sidenote for anyone else trying to rein in their grocery bill but are tired of ground beef/chicken/pork, shanks + curries are my go-to when I want a hearty, satisfying dinner that makes great use of whatever is available. The disadvantage of this is that the leftover bones are not really suitable for stocks; too much of the minerals tend to leech out resulting in yucky metallic notes in the stock. Rice would stretch this out, but we're trying to bring our blood markers into normal range, so we've been scaling way back on the straight carbs.

     

    Broth base was a stock made from bones from a prime rib roast, turkey carcass, chicken carcass, pork bones, ham hock, reduced pastrami cooking liquor, kombu, and mirepoix. Not the traditional tantanmen base, but the results were worth the effort. Also, the single ham hock somehow initially overwhelmed the pastrami liquor. :D Had to tweak things a bit.

    The tare was Japanese dark soy sauce, ground sesame, roasted tahini, peanut butter, leek, and homemade chili oil.

    Toppings are pork shoulder "chashu" crisped up under the broiler before serving, seasoned ground pork, ajitsuke tamago, and roasted ground cashews.

     

    I have a Roxim Z3EK bicycle headlight. This light is supposed to have a low and high beam function, but I can only get the low beam to work. So far, I have tried:

    • grounding the green wire
    • sending 12V+ to green
    • sending 12V- to green
    • bridging the green and black wires
    • bridging the green and white wires

    I emailed the manufacturer asking for a wiring diagram, but no response.

    I appreciate any guidance y'all might have. Thanks!

     

    The runner Fauja Singh, believed to be the oldest person to complete a marathon, has died in a road accident in India aged 114.

    The athlete, who lived in Ilford in east London, was hit by a car and suffered fatal injuries while trying to cross a road in his birth village of Beas Pind, near Jalandhar in Punjab, on Monday, according to reports in India.

    Come on, Guardian. "Accident?!" Notice the use of language in these cases. When the person killed is driving, that's a "crash." For example, "crash" was used to describe Kelvin Kiptum's (marathon record holder) death.

    Off the top of my head, a couple more ultra-endurance athletes killed when hit by automobiles:

     

    Last summer the LBS gave me this old Rodriguez that was part of a batch of bikes they got from an estate sale. I just "completed" it yesterday. Even in its neglected state, it felt soooo good. Also, since it was from the original era of Rodriguez, it merits all the love.

    How I got it:

    The original TA 50.4 BCD crank was ruined because it was over-torqued to the point of rubbing the frame. Not the biggest issue since 50.4 chainring selection has been problematic for decades.

    I stripped it down, cleaned it thoroughly, touched up the paint dings, and put clear film on all the wear points. I'm not a fan of blue on bicycles, but this metal flake blue really grabs me.

    The handcut lugs and brazed cable guides are also a pretty detail.

    Upgrades:

    • VO fluted triple crankset, 165mm
    • VO 124mm cartridge bottom bracket (holy hell, this took me months to find; of course, now they're back in stock :D )
    • VO Enterprise wheelset, 27inch, 126mm rear OLD
    • Pasela Pro-Tite tires, 27x1 1/4 (meh)
    • VO first gen quill stem, 100mm, NOS
    • Nitto Noodle 177 bars, 46cm, NOS, traded some IT work with the LBS for these
    • Shimano BR400 brake levers, NOS (although I recently found out these are still in production!)
    • 14-30 custom, rebuildable freewheel traded from the LBS retrogrouch in exchange for homemade peppermint patties :D
    • VO clear braided stainless brake and shifter cables
    • Forager Cycles cable cherries (highly suggested farkle for all your bikes! They make cable adjustments much easier away from the workbench.)

    What I kept:

    • Suntour Honor rear derailleur - not the prettiest, but a total workhorse and will last until the heat death of the universe
    • Huret front derailleur
    • Campagnolo Record downtube shifters
    • Suntour Superbe sidepull brakes
    • Specialized cartridge headset
    • SR Laprade seatpost (but it needs a polishing)

    What I'm going to change:

    • 700C wheels - there's plenty of room on the brake arms to move the pads down; the switch to 700C will vastly improve my tire selection and give me room to add...
    • Full coverage fenders, probably VO smooth
    • Tubus Fly stainless racks, front and rear
    • That bar tape was not my best wrapping job and the tape itself doesn't impress me; probably gonna go with Lizard Skins DSP or Supacaz Super Sticky Kush

    Part of the fun of these old bikes is the by-hook-or-by-crook refurbishing journey. The networking and human connection involved in bringing this bike to its rideable state... it absolutely took a village. I found fellow retrogrouches in my small city. I helped the LBS resolve a bunch of their computer network problems. Old components that were languishing in a box got a new life on a bike that will be ridden. Seeing this in the sun, feeling it on the pavement, all that frustration turns to joy.

    Special callout to Classic Cycle in Bainbridge Island WA USA: (https://classiccycleus.com/museum/bikes/). They are a seriously cool museum bike shop. They have encyclopedic knowledge and a ridiculous NOS parts selection. For being such a tiny shop, it's absolutely worth the trip. Be sure to say hi to Tullio, the friendly chill shop kitty.

     

    No, this isn't a cast iron thing. Using stainless pans, you can get nonstick effects that, in my experience, far outperform Teflon anyway. The process is called "spot seasoning." I have cooked crispy, cheesy rice noodles with eggs with zero sticking.

    I love my cast iron pans, but stainless is my daily go-to. Added bonus: use 100% copper wool to clean your stainless pan. The copper-coated wool at most grocery stores is problematic; you might get a few uses out of the coated garbage and then it starts shedding metal bits.

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