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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

~semi-~ Serious question, Idon’t get it. Most of us get why the hegemonic gender system is stupid, why subscribe to the binary role you were assigned? Also, why do straight people exist? Maybe it’s just me but I like to look and feel like my own perception of what is attractive.

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

eh, because i dont know if im actually demi or if my brain craves attention

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I'm trans myself but I think some people just end up being cis. And that's OK. We shouldn't judge them for it...all that much...

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Ping me when a few people have answered

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm cis for the same reason someone would be binary trans, except I think the gender I was assigned happens to be correct.

EDIT: oh it's a bit

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It's not fully a bit, I am interested in how people would actually answer it.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Fair enough, my answer is sincere for that it's worth.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

No urge to transition to anything other than my assigned gender. I might've experimented with skirts since they seem comfier but won't for fear of transphobia.

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[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Because sex is hot and I like it.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I am simply, and always have been, a cissy

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You're expected to "explain" yourself somehow and I learned the words and phrases about heteronormativity and cisgender(ness?) before anything else. I do wonder what labels I would have taken if non-binary were a term I was taught alongside (and with the same "matter of fact"ness as) masculine/feminine, boy/girl, male/female though.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I already have like eleven boy clothes. I can hardly muster the necessary space for clean and used storage, washing, and drying, the logistical expertise, the time of day, week, or year, nor the necessary enthusiasm to acquire a girl clothe on top of that

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