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When I go to work I find it difficult to greet my coworkers when they're talking, and my coworkers talk a lot. I don't want to disturb them, so I don't say anything and let them speak. After that I don't find it necessary to greet them, because we've already seen each other. I don't do it to troll them or because I hate them and it baffles me that people can take that personally and feel attacked.

Another thing I don't understand is why people cannot simply work fast and then relax and talk. I do that and my pauses are longer. I don't understand why people prefer to work a bit and then gossip. I find that very tiring. I need structure.

Coworkers think I'm a loner, nothing wrong with that, I like being alone, but sometimes I wonder if I'm a bit autistic.

Leaving my current position is not feasible, it would mean taking a considerable pay cut.

I don't want to pretend something I'm not. I don't drink alcohol or coffee and don't smoke. I'm not gonna start doing that just to be a bit more popular.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

I just walk in and say 'Good Morning' in passing, no need for an answer or waiting for them to stop talking. Then I go settle in for the work and if they want to chat they will probably talk to you then. If you were there first I guess you can take the initiative.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

It's can feel awkward, but it's okay to speak over them for a simple "good morning" and maybe a wave. Youre not taking over the conversation.

I know for myself, it can be hard because I don't want to interrupt, but I have to remind myself that it's okay sometimes. I don't need to wait for them to let me speak.

Just don't be a dick and take over the conversation. Say good morning and let them go back to what they were talking about.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I agree with other comments, just throw in a good morning as you're passing your coworkers. I like to raise my hand sometimes (as a wave) and even try to smile.