A meme memeing a meme...oh how original I am. I should just cease and delete everything but oh well, here I am.

It's true tho. Aftercare is extremely important. Don't forget that!

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[–] 5 points 4 hours ago (12 children)

Aftercare is just as important as foreplay. It's important that we put our toys back together when we break them. Water, cuddles, praise, validation for all of the good girls.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 4 hours ago (11 children)

    How are you like literally the embodiment of what I'm looking for in a person in bed? How?? 😭

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  • [–] 2 points 4 hours ago (10 children)

    Should start a thread for bdsmtest results honestly

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 3 hours ago (9 children)

    I already did! And lots of people joined in. Loooots of subs here, lol

    And I'm one of them...if it wasn't obvious 😆

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  • [–] 2 points 3 hours ago (8 children)

    I don't know why I'm surprised there is already a thread for that. Also Dom-sense is a thing. I already knew you were as submissive as it is possible to be just from your posts.
    Anyway, might as well post mine.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 2 hours ago (5 children)

    I saw yours. Not kidding you are like the perfect match for someone like me, lol. Too bad, given the situation...

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  • [–] 2 points 2 hours ago (4 children)

    You should communicate your needs for dominance and structure to your partner. You sound like a prime candidate for lifestyle bdsm. It can be very rewarding, as long as the communication is clear and open, and you both have decent emotional intelligence as well as healthy conflict resolution skills.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 hours ago* (3 children)

    decent emotional intelligence

    healthy conflict resolution skills

    I'd say she needs more time to grow, actually. (Not gonna lie, so do I.) The frequent "pauses" they take from each other indicate that relationship counselling is overdue (I found her a local, free, LGBTQ+friendly clinic but she wouldn't go)

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  • [–] 1 point 2 hours ago (2 children)

    I wasnt aware of all of that, i just come here for horny shitposting mostly. I'm inclined to agree with you.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 child)

    A summary of what she previously shared, including on prior accounts: Their sex life is quite fulfilling but he could be more aware of her needs. Accepting her as she transitions is great but there are some things he said and did that made her uncomfortable, and he's not really the type to offer consolation hugs Miisha often requests virtually (one of the reasons I got her the Blåhaj). I don't know much from his perspective. Miisha is quite hard-headed but overestimates how mean she is (and internalizes transphobia), a healthier relationship with herself and better handling of emotions is required on her part.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 hour ago

    As someone who didn't start developing the previously mentioned skills until after 30, it can be very difficult. But at the end of the day, it really does all start with loving and being nice to yourself

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  • [–] 2 points 9 hours ago (1 child)

    Tf is Sasuke doing with Hinata!?

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  • [–] 2 points 13 hours ago (1 child)

    If aftercare is extremely important than you are doing it for the aftercare, don’t lie yourself

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  • [–] 6 points 18 hours ago

    Sasuke doing Hinata.
    That was in my [REDACTED]

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