A meme memeing a meme...oh how original I am. I should just cease and delete everything but oh well, here I am.

It's true tho. Aftercare is extremely important. Don't forget that!

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[–] 2 points 9 hours ago (4 children)

You should communicate your needs for dominance and structure to your partner. You sound like a prime candidate for lifestyle bdsm. It can be very rewarding, as long as the communication is clear and open, and you both have decent emotional intelligence as well as healthy conflict resolution skills.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 hours ago* (3 children)

    decent emotional intelligence

    healthy conflict resolution skills

    I'd say she needs more time to grow, actually. (Not gonna lie, so do I.) The frequent "pauses" they take from each other indicate that relationship counselling is overdue (I found her a local, free, LGBTQ+friendly clinic but she wouldn't go)

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  • [–] 1 point 8 hours ago (2 children)

    I wasnt aware of all of that, i just come here for horny shitposting mostly. I'm inclined to agree with you.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 hours ago (1 child)

    A summary of what she previously shared, including on prior accounts: Their sex life is quite fulfilling but he could be more aware of her needs. Accepting her as she transitions is great but there are some things he said and did that made her uncomfortable, and he's not really the type to offer consolation hugs Miisha often requests virtually (one of the reasons I got her the Blåhaj). I don't know much from his perspective. Miisha is quite hard-headed but overestimates how mean she is (and internalizes transphobia), a healthier relationship with herself and better handling of emotions is required on her part.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 hours ago

    As someone who didn't start developing the previously mentioned skills until after 30, it can be very difficult. But at the end of the day, it really does all start with loving and being nice to yourself

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