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[–] 19 points 15 hours ago (1 child)

You really need to trust a person and have an agreement of when to stop and how hard and a safe way to ask to stop for that.

Reminds me of how in the epstein files a still unnamed swell pal of his at his New Mexico Ranch is said to have strangled a girl to death in sex, and they buried her our there.

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  • [–] 11 points 16 hours ago (1 child)

    Sucking toes is safer than choking.

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  • [–] 32 points 21 hours ago* (3 children)

    "Once consciousness is lost, consent cannot be given or verified."

    Well, yeah no shit. Consent before engagement is consent understanding the potential consequences. Not giving consent prior to losing consciousness is typically called rape. It's late and I'm tired so correct me if I'm wrong.

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  • [–] 4 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

    Normally, sure. But these days, legalese can turn it into implied consent depending on court, judge, jury, accused and accuser. It's circumstantial and there will be arguers for both cases. So it won't be a clear win in every case.

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  • [–] 10 points 21 hours ago (1 child)

    (just in case, I didn't read much past the statement in my first comment) I interpreted that sentence as an in-the-moment situation, leaving judgement and biases out. If someone dies from breath play with unwritten/unrecorded consent there's (typically) one other person present and no recordings, so it's their word against the defense.

    There's plenty of times where someone has been choked during sexual interaction, didn't give consent, and never speaks of it again. Some cases (unfortunately) don't stop there.

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  • [–] 4 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

    Such a weird and morally loaded article.

    It seems to conflate a bunch of choking techniques, only mentioned once with jargon, but keeps talking about breath play only?

    Conclusion calls it "not normal" but half of people do it?

    Outcomes like Russian roulette? One in six die? Ok?

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  • [+] -20 points 15 hours ago (11 children)

    If strangling women gets you off you belong in prison

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  • [–] 22 points 15 hours ago (9 children)

    What if I enjoy a little chokey choke from my wife, and she enjoys it too, as well as vice versa? Should we both be in jail?

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  • [+] -19 points 15 hours ago (7 children)

    tee hee! an ickle wickle chokey wokey!

    i'd throw away the key

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  • [–] 13 points 14 hours ago (5 children)

    🤷‍♂️ we don't do it hard, you know. Just barely more than making skin contact so you can feel a little bit of pressure. It's not like full on Homer-on-Bart "why you little—" squeezing the neck... 🙄 Plus it's mutual.

    But whatever. 😊

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  • [+] -19 points 14 hours ago (4 children)

    christ do they allow child marriages wherever you're from

    barely more than making skin contact

    it's not about you then is it

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  • [–] 3 points 8 hours ago*

    do they allow child marriages wherever you're from

    That is criminal here. But what is the relevancy of that in this context, lol?

    it's not about you then is it

    What? It's about both of us. Like I said, we both enjoy it. And it was a while ago either way. Only when it gets really hot and passionate. 😉

    You sound like you're offended that we have something nice going on. I hope this isn't jealousy. 🫂

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  • [–] 0 points 15 hours ago

    Good thumbnail

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