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[–] 4 points 6 hours ago

These are the entry requirements for retail.

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  • [–] 14 points 17 hours ago (1 child)

    Is that a female wojack or a teenage boy one with long hair/acne?

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  • [–] 15 points 1 day ago

    Real and straight

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  • > on 4chan

    > not doing anything absurdly creepy, racist or disgusting

    > I'm seriously the most pathetic person on this board.

    This person is one of the least pathetic people on that board.

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  • Damn , Can relate bro

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  • [–] 37 points 1 day ago (4 children)

    So no disability? Just "ugly" and "low IQ"?

    Ugly is no barrier to success. And it's written too well to be from someone with an IQ so low that it holds them back.

    Anon is probably just lazy or more likely scared of the leaving their comfort zone.

    Real and pathetic.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 hours ago* (2 children)

    I've found that "you're not stupid, you're just lazy" applies to most people who claim to be stupid.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 hour ago

    Having met genuinely stupid people I wish they had this level of self-awareness and would stay out of the way. Generally speaking though they insert themselves into every possible situation.

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  • [–] 1 point 15 hours ago

    I mean it does make some things more difficult, but its more of a speed bump than a barrier. And a lot of the time decently attractive people will convince themselves they're ugly cause it helps justify their inaction.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    To me it kinda sounds like covert narcissism "I'm so awful dumb pathetic and terrible I won't ever accomplish anything" and uses it as an excuse to be a lazy pos. A lot like boogie2988. Does it to drum up empathy, to enable his lazyness and uselessness.

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  • [–] 0 points 7 hours ago

    Sounds like adhd to me. You ever busted your ass working hard at a job and when finished, your boss it's just disappointed in the whole thing? Imagine that's your entire life. You start to avoid doing anything.

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  • [–] 40 points 1 day ago

    Ugly and low IQ Severe Depression

    I hope anon gets some help. It's hard to find your way out of that bleakness once you're there. I speak from experience, and it IS possible to get better. Self worth takes a lifetime to build if your parents didn't make the fundament for it in you. It's still worth working on it.

    It's okay to not be the perfect adult, when you have barely learned what adulthood is. It's okay to be a late bloomer. It's okay to be uncertain. It's okay to do life at your own pace. But don't let the bleakness win. No matter how shite it gets, it won't last forever and you will find the way back from that pit. Even if it happens at such a slow and sluggish pace, that you don't even notice the improvements from day to day.

    I wish I could give anon a hug. Been there too, buddy.

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  • [–] 66 points 2 days ago

    mfw i have depression

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  • [–] 47 points 2 days ago

    Painful to watch young people fall victim to these ideas that so harm their self-esteem.

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  • [–] 36 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    I feel like there's only so much blame you can put onto a single person for their situation before you wonder what the hell is going on with their parents/guardians?

    Because someone in their mid-20s having no basic life skills cannot be blamed purely on Anon. Either their parents are neglecting them, or coddling them to the point of sabotage.

    Having said all that, if Anon is articulate enough to write all of this - then they've got a high enough IQ to at the very least try to do something about their situation, even if its just doing volunteer work for a while to build up some basic skills.

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  • [–] -2 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    I don't get why it is parents responsibility if they are 24 and dont have any disabilities. Isn't it only parents jobs to take care of you till you are 18.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    Being a parent is a life long job that you chose when you had a kid, so that latter take is wild.

    But in any case, even if I agreed with you, do you not believe parents have a responsibility to teach their children basic life skills? You brought a kid into the world, you should at the very least teach it how to look after itself.

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  • [–] -2 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

    Honestly your take feels wild to me as well. Sure you should teach your kids how to take care themselves, but at some point they are an adult and have to take the responsibility for their own lives.

    If people don't have to take personal responsibility what stops them from taking advantage of it? Like you could have the best parents, but claim they messed you up, so refuse to work and leech of them for the rest of your life.

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  • [–] 3 points 14 hours ago (1 child)

    Yes, I do agree that you have a level of personal responsibility towards yourself - and that you owe it to yourself to make the best of the hand you're dealt.

    But turning 18 doesn't suddenly absolve your parents of their failings. If they failed to teach Anon the basic life skills that would help them to be a proper member of society, then that is still their failure - even if it is a failure being further exacerbated by Anon themselves.

    As @some_kind_of_guy@lemmy.world said, your last paragraph negates itself...

    A good parent would've forced Anon to learn those skills, and wouldn't just stand-by going "they're an adult now, not my problem" - nor would they coddle them and allow them to be a NEET. Both are forms of neglectful parenting, as I said its a lifetime job.

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  • [–] 4 points 17 hours ago (1 child)

    Having "the best parents" would preclude that possibility, though. Your "what-if" is a non-sequitur, it doesn't follow.

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  • [–] 1 point 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

    Each person is the result of their genetics, upbringing, friend circle, life experiences etc. Having the best parents doesn't guarantee you turning out well.

    Also nothing personal but using big words like this when you can express it much simpler, comes off very pretentious.

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  • [–] 21 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    The post itself says not as dumb as you think you are.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago

    Yeah seems like you actually have to suffer to do something just because it can be marginally useful

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