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My boy mode keeps getting less and less convincing… and I love it lol

It does make me feel like I should probably hurry up and finish coming out to everyone who doesn’t know yet, before people start figuring it out on their own 😬

[-] femtek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 34 minutes ago

I was wearing sports bras because going down the stairs hurt and still had only come out to 3 people at work. Lots has changed in the years since then though.

[-] jbunnie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 hour ago

Same, but coming out is so hard. I haven't had a single good reaction, and a few horrible ones, I need new friends 😫

[-] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 15 minutes ago

It’s so scary, isn’t it?! I’m sorry to hear your friends haven’t been supportive, you definitely deserve better

I’ve been very fortunate that everyone I’ve come out to so far has been really positive and supportive. But I also started with all the “easy” ones: my queer and progressive friends, my therapist, etc. And I still have to figure out how to manage coming out to my conservative Catholic family, and at work.

I feel like I’m spending so much time agonizing over what might happen, I just need to have it be done so I can deal with whatever actually does end up happening

[-] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 hours ago

some day i will finally manage to put on some fat, and then WOO BABY i'll actually start looking more fem :3

[-] for_some_delta@beehaw.org 5 points 2 hours ago

Boy mode can get pinned. Cova cradle and spladle are neat moves. Grow the sport.

[-] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 6 hours ago

cant wait for the day i fail at boymoding :3 itll make it so much easier to pull off tomboy

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 hours ago

i started malefailing at like 6 months in

[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 4 points 2 hours ago

Ayo you're pulling off tomboys? I got some people who'd like to meet

Considering how bad transfems are at judging their own appearance, that day might be closer than you think

this post was submitted on 31 Jul 2026
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