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[–] 49 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I like good music and dislike bad music.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    "I can't figure out my music type" - Bocchi the *Rock*

    🤔

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  • [–] 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Tbf, if you listen to a rock radio station, one minute they're playing Metallica, the next minute it's Imagine Dragons, then suddenly it's the Rolling Stones, then it's that Post Malone song where Ozzy raps a verse

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  • [–] 17 points 2 months ago

    I just like listening to good music. If you can't figure out what that means your taste in music just isn't that good.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    Unless it has like a really, REALLY artistic music clip, in which case I like listening to it even if I dislike the music.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    It's actually very easy to explain, it's eclectic.

    you just say that and refuse to elaborate further, people will find you so mysterious

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago (18 children)

    Is it weird that some so-called Femcels are actually kind of hot?

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Most people seem surprised to find out that I've made it into my 30s without ever finding a girlfriend. Many women have told me "wow, I'd love to find a guy like you"...the obvious implication being not me.

    I imagine it's not that different for women who struggle to find relationships.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

    You don't need to be particularly hot to not be a femcel, lots of kind-of-ugly people are in relationships. It's all about the social skills and being able to find people you gel with. And, considering the character in the post, not having crippling psychological issues.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago* (6 children)

    ... no?

    Have you ever met a conventionally attractive, but socially awkward autist or serious introvert?

    Of any sex/gender?

    Some such people are women!

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    thwaps you with a ruler

    No! No.

    You don't need to fix that.

    You just need to be ok with also being an introvert / socially awkward person, and then you two can be eachother's person who is generally less taxing and more enjoyable to socialize with than others.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (3 children)

    I am awkward and stressed, but not an introvert! Under the right (wrong) circumstances, I can drown a person in conversation, and even be very excited to talk!

    Since I will never bother someone by telling them they are kind of cute/asking them out, my only hope is that I get kidnaped by a crazy femcel!

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    Not sure if we've gone over this before, but that sounds like me 10-20 years ago: socially awkward in a usually endearing but sometimes extremely (unintentionally) inflammatory way.

    cough Autistic cough.

    I know its scary but you really do just need to practice socializing a bit more, in person.

    Probably safer to practice with other autists, if you can find them.

    Being able to ask a person for something, politely, in a context appropriate way is an extremely important life skill. Yes, I know it really sucks and seems confusing as fuck because people do not actually make sense.

    ... But people do mostly make sense, most of the time. It just takes exposure, and courage.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    I suspect ADHD, my brother has Asperger symptom. Could possibly be AuADHD?

    Yeah, I appreciate you, and your advice!

    We talked about stuff before, and I like you in general.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago*

    Asperger's just is part of Autism now, the DSM V basically rolled up everything similar into Autism Spectrum Disorder, where there are a whole bunch of behavioral 'dimensions', and basically if your 'total score' exceeds a certain threshold, congrats you get the Autism achievement, lol.

    99% sure anybody who was diagnosed/classified as Aspergers would now be essentially a 'flavor' of Autist.

    There is also a significant genetic component to Autism... if your brother, mother, father have it, etc, more likely you will as well, or at least be higher on the ASD score than a normie from a family of normies.

    AuDHD is Autism + ADHD, which can and do co-occur, but at least for myself, I'm just Autistic.

    Anyway, this is all an overwrought way of me trying to say you have more options than consigning yourself to hope for a fantastic movie plot to occur to you.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    Songs? I prefer weird rhythmic noises.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    I like garbage music. Especially Garbage.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago* (3 children)

    It took me the longest time to figure out why I loved the Mountain Goats. It's because they are philosophically absurd. The tone of their music rarely matches the tone of their lyrics. One of their most popular songs is about how much you hate your soon to be ex, how much you want them to die, and it's so happy.

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  • [+] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 6 days ago)
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    i got hated on for hoarding when i posted on reddit how many playlists ive maxed out

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    So... basically Mr Bungle in the 90s, Estradasphere in the 00s, and Igorr in the 10s/20s?

    Mr Bungle : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUOWTmOP4FQ
    Estradasphere : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEC16_V-_II
    Igorrr : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ3KObtDaGw

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