I love that you're now having the non-genitals you want and I love that by requesting that you've now been a pioneer paving the way for others 🏳️⚧️
You really should be proud of yourself for going through all the medical system interrogations and stuff and enduring people questioning you on things that are not their business.
No real questions here tbh, I'm just so glad you were able to get what you wanted! Having genitals you don't want is unbelievably fucking uncomfortable in my experience. I hope it was the relief you needed!
My surgeon made Me a new pee pee hole, around where most women keep theirs. You definitely couldn't fit a penis in there, though, it's tiny. It's for pee and jizz only, same as the old one. I suppose I could still do sounding, but I don't want to.
Did you have trouble finding a doctor willing to do it, or get a lot of push back? I've heard how hard it can be for women to get sterilized sometimes, so I imagine there would be a lot of push back on this too. "Are you really really really sure for real?"
I had a lot of trouble with the doctor stuff. Bottom surgery in general in Australia is a nightmare. There's this guy, Andrew Ives, who used to be the #1 recommendation for bottom surgery in the entire country. So I booked a consultation with him, months and months in advance. And then he retired.
I eventually found a surgeon with a great bedside manner, who could do exactly what I wanted, including the special feature I wanted. The only problem was, he wanted Me to see TWO licensed WPATH psychiatrists. Most people only have to see one psychiatrist, but I had to see two because My surgery is less common.
At first, I thought you were describing a zero-depth vaginoplasty sort of situation, but then realized you really did order "nuttin'". I'll admit, I was just as confused as Jimmy. Thanks for digging up this classic ad too.
I have no questions (your replies here tell the whole story already), but just wanted to say: this is incredible and I'm happy for you!
I made this post because A: it's funny, and B: I want other trans people to know this is an option, so they can be happier with whatever choice they make.
I kept a little bit of the sensitive tissue. Just the tip. It's under My skin so I can wank by rubbing it. But I'm not really into the whole having sex thing most of the time.
I see You capitalize Your first person pronouns, and in Your bio You specify Your third person pronouns (They/Them), so would You also like that for second person pronouns?
Pretty quick and simple. I don't have to dilate or anything like that. I walked out of the hospital three days after the surgery, and a week later I was taking care of Myself
I didn't like having a twig and berries. It got hard at inconvenient times and got in the way of wearing tight pants. Plus I don't like the concept of having a sex object attached to My body. Now that I have no genitals, I wear leggings and cute dresses all the time.
According to most people's definitions of sex, yes I'm asexual. But I do enjoy some of the secret kinds of sex the patriarchy doesn't want you to know about.
Bottom surgery isn't for everyone, some people aren't comfortable losing what they have. But for those who do want it, it's awesome, and sometimes life-saving. The most important thing is doing what makes you happy and comfortable.
By the way, if eliminating random boners is all you want HRT on its own will usually do that. I've also heard DHT blockers like finasteride can cause erectile dysfunction as well, though I can't say for sure if it's guaranteed.
Definitely do your own research before taking drugs to change aspects of yourself. I'm just a person on the internet.
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